Showing posts with label #relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #relationships. Show all posts

Monday, February 7, 2022

Four types of bois

Men: so you're fucking a bottom and you're wondering whether he's the kind of boy who can easily be turned into a submissive bitch? There's an easy way to tell. If he doesn't touch his own junk at all without needing to be told not to, he's already got a strong submissive streak. Turning him into your own personal toy and bitch boy will be easy.

Some of these naturally submissive bois will wait until you cum before turning their attention to themselves and their clitties; while others will ask for permission to do that. Which I think should be the norm as it it your tops pleasure you are seeking in the first place and not your own so therefore you never touch your clitty. Yet others may just get dressed, knowing that your load in their pussy is all they need and they leave. Adding their own load would seriously distract from the most important thing to them in this moment and that is once again YOUR pleasure, not theirs.  The only thing that truly matter to them was getting bred, for in you breeding them was their signal that they were truly good pussy that did it's job.

You can usually tell any of these bois that they DON'T have your permission to ejaculate and they will most likely obey without protests. Personally here I think they had their chance of doing that hands free while you were coring out their cunt, and hammering their princess spot/slut button. However, next time you do decide to fuck them. surprise them with a chastity cage and they'll very easily could be all yours--- as for many it is the happiest day of their lives.

There's a second group of bois who will attempt to pleasure themselves while you hammer away at their pussy but will quickly and obediently oblige when you make it clear you don't want them too. They may or may not have a natural submissive streak. It may or may not be as strong as in the first group of bois, or not as quite as developed yet. Either way, these bois can easily be turned into submissive bitch bois with the proper training by you. 

The third group of bois are those who keep reaching for their dicks and will get themselves off without asking permission and could care less what you said, or want from them, even though you've explicitly said they were not allowed. First of all these bois need a bare pussy, over the knee spanking! These bois ca be the hardest to train into a submissive bitch boi, because they may not see themselves that way at all. They may not see themselves as having a pussy, and if that is the case they more than likely may not see their pussy as their only source of pleasure. But when did you ever shy away from a challenge, Daddy? For some Daddy's breaking these defiant bois own will for independence and attachment to their pleasure is the greatest joy of all.

Lastly, is the group of boi's who see themselves as girls; meaning they use all feminine terms for all of their sexual parts as I have discussed here before: pussy, princess spot/slut button for prostrate, testicles become ovaries and of course clitty, nubbin or dicklet. They fully know, accept and celebrate the fact that they have a pussy, that their main pleasure comes from being pussy from men, are beyond thrilled when bred, may dream of becoming pregnant and the only real pleasure they want is their pussy-gasms/prostate orgasms because it means Daddy is really enjoying your pussy then. We may develop an internal liquid with sexual use, for some it turns into a frothy mix, we've all seen in porn and for some of us we enjoy the pussy stretch more than anything so we can be prone to big dildo's or even fisting. As long as pussy is in use we are at our happiest. Daddy's pleasure is our only pleasure, period end of story. We may even call ourselves girls, like I do.

I'll brazenly admit this is the group I'm in. I'm also the type that craves to be "Daddy's good girl", for Daddy to buy me lingerie, thigh highs, garters, lacy crotchless panties, bras, corsets. Maybe a cute skirt with my dress shirt and a cardigan, blurring the line but a clear biological "boi". Think Harry Styles here, or Jayden Smith or even Billy Porter as examples of what I'm trying to say here.

For Daddy's with a girl--- my best advice is marry her! Immediately!



Monday, May 17, 2021

Desires: Memes and thoughts


I was having a conversation with one of my Twitter followers about my desires and this morning I felt I needed to share them here with you, in the hopes that by my sharing them, they will, some how, come to fruition.

If you read my blog, then you know first hand I identify as a pussyboy, I even consider my pussy to be my gender if you will: pussy/they/her a VERY non-binary approach to my gender identity. But if you understand the vernacular, and thinking of this topic, you may understand where I am coming from. I believe I mentioned here that my thinking goes beyond that of "faggot" which is a whole other mind set, and that my being pussy is more.

With all that said the real reason for this post is my desire. I want and or need a Daddy that understands me fully, accepts me fully and understands the thinking; but I think a lot of as pussyboi's want this. My desire goes beyond even this, and this is where it gets interesting.

I have this BIG really unexplored "Daddy" side when it comes to boi's/gurls like me. I find it so erotically charged when a boi/gurl spreads his legs and offers me his pussy. Now I know what your going to say, "Um, but, Charlie your pussy yourself, what the hell do you expect to do with another pussy?" Well let me tell you plenty!

I'm a huge fan of rimming, which I believe I've spoke about here. Last guy I rimmed, my face never left his pussy for over an hour,, before I came up for air! Then there is fingering, which I could do with a piggie guy for days on end. Then don't get me started on dildo play. Nothing hotter in my opinion than pegging another bottom boi, giving him.... even if it's silicone/rubber/plastic the pounding he deserves. In my thinking even in that situation I'm being of service to HIM! I'm making him happy. Then, not for the faint of heart mind you, there's fisting. 


I've had decades of experience as a fisting top, and thankfully, I have small hands, or so I'm told. If the guy gets off on it, I'll do it. And here is the odd thing, if you will, I get rock hard doing it, and in very few instances over the years I have topped. Now though, I wonder if my topping as a pussyboy, is letting "my brother" pussyboy disappointed as I'm not a TRUE top? Is my topping a disservice?

Anyway, I really believe, to the core of my being I could easily and quickly for in love with a guy/gurl like me. Have a loving, caring relationship together. In an open relationship where together and separately we serve MEN but are fully honest about those encounters with each other. Then come home to each other for our own fun.

A guy/gurl grounded in who they are, know who they are, willing to explore even deeper with me, who they are. Someone comfortable in their own skin to be a home nudist, and even public nudist, like me. Someone to hold at night, spooning each other. Someone to explore our kinks together. Someone I could even marry. Someone, like me who GETS it. I would move heaven and earth for either type of relationship.

Is it so much to ask for, and yes I'm open to inquiries! 
















Sunday, May 16, 2021

Emasculation: Meme's and thoughts


“Stick your tongue out at me, baby boy, and Daddy's going to put it to real good use. Your so goddamn pretty in in your pretty pink panties Daddy bought for you. It's not hard to resist my baby girl looking like that”. 
This was the warning I gave before I fucked his throat pussy over and over, blowing load after load on his face until he was completely glazed. Then I made him lick it all up. My finger comes out of his slick pussy. I give a lil slap on his boi-ovaries and I let go of his face.

"Turn around, baby girl, show Daddy that beautiful pussy." 

Then them hands was on my pussy. Just rubbing them pussy-cheeks. Slapping me playfully, jiggling them..

"That's a hot fucking pussy, baby girl and that goddamn perfect lil baby girl cunt."

I guess he was just looking at my fucking cunt, cause Daddy sure as fuck wasn't touching it yet, just playing with my pussy-cheeks.


 I proceeded to pound those cakes and blow another load in its petite little boy pussy.

Insolence has its price. In this case it’s a bruised throat and gaping boicunt.


This morning my mind is on emasculation.

Goggle dictionary describes emasculate as: Depriving a man of his role or identity. Synonyms include: effeminate, effete, unmanly. unmasculine, girlish, namby-pamby, sissy, girly, camp, limp wristed, queeny and epicene

Or to make a man weaker or less effective. Synonyms include: weakened, make feeble, debilitate, enfeeble, enervate, dilute, and erode.

Personally I enjoy the idea of being girly and limp wristed. I'm gay, duh. I'm supposed to be a bit campy in my opinion, and maybe that's my generational thinking as I'm soon to be 55. I'm also a pussyboy power bottom. I adore getting fucked, and fucked stupid. You know, walking a bit funny, your pussy is sore from use, it could be difficult to sit. More or less, in some vernacular some would say I'm a faggot. I don't mind that word either but this is coming from a place of my being involved with Queer Nation and ACT UP. I was a big time, very loud activist nationally. I embraced by faggotness.

I didn't and still DON"T want to assimilate. I am not everyone else. I am not the societal norm, by far. I don't see myself as male or female. Possibly non-binary, but I've written on here this idea of being a third gender, and then taking it the step further that I'm just my true sex organ, and that sex organ happens to be my boipussy. That being pussy is my gender. I know it's very unique, different and possibly disturbing idea but I think it wraps up beautifully who I am. 

Submissive, yes. Passive, yes to the point you would think I was June Cleaver. Does my pleasure come from being of use to a dominant, hell yes. Does that pleasure come from being HIS pussy, fuck yes. Put me in thigh highs, chastity and even high heels you bet your life. Call me a girl, yes. Am I a housewife type, you better believe it.... henny I was Martha Stewart before Martha ever hit the scene.

I don't mind emasculation. Hell, I thrive there. But, here lately I see myself with someone like me in a long term committed relationship, loving each other but in an open relationship where we service MEN together and separately but come home to each other for our own fun together. Maybe, somebody younger than me, or just a tiny bit older.... as I've always been the younger "boi" in my long-term relationships.







Saturday, May 15, 2021

Submission: Meme's and my thoughts

Submission is the starting point. It’s the mindset required for you to achieve everything you need to fulfill your purpose. Submission isn’t the goal, it isn’t your purpose. It is only the starting point. Submission allows you to empty your brain, allows your Daddy to replace the contents with HIS own thoughts, ideas, opinions, and desires. Submission allows you to accept you are an empty vessel and in need of ownership. Submission is where it all begins, preparing yourself to be molded by Daddy who gives you the gift of allowing you to worship him. Becoming what he deserves. Never thinking of anything beyond what he deserves. That is the goal. Submission is the starting point. 

Receiving= getting fucked. Simply receiving. It looks easy, but there is a lot of training in it. This boi has learned to keep his hands away, keep his legs spread wide. The boi knows that its limp dicklet/clitty/nubbin is irrelevant. Daddy isn’t interested in how the boi is doing. HE isn’t interested in the boi’s enjoyment. He isn’t interested in what the boi is thinking. HE is interested only in the total submission of the boi. HE is interested in the boi’s focus on the Daddy's pleasure only. HE is interested in getting what HE wants, what HE deserves. Boi's, this is all HE ever wants from you, an open, willing, greedy, hungry pussy. Keep your mouth shut unless HIS dick is in it, keep your head empty, and keep submitting, obeying, and being grateful for the opportunity to worship.













Tuesday, October 20, 2020

Training Manual for fags and/or Alpha's

I


recently got this question on Twitter: 

"Mate is there such a thing as a training manual for faggots? Or something which alpha lads can read to educate them about the differences between alphas and fags?"

So, I'm going to start with the easiest answer first; which is follow my Twitter @BBbttmwhore53 as my feed is all about being a pussyboy, from my perspective as one. Meme's, storied gifs, and retweets I feel fit my theme for Twitter. Guys seem to love it, and I love doing it. Everything about being a pussy boy without the shame, guilt, fear or the degrading aspects that some view us as worthless. It's all positive, reinforcing and hopefully encouraging.

I also run a list on my Twitter called: "Training accounts 4 fags" twitter.com/i/lists/1282439061043589120  which are accounts I feel support my ideas about being the proper pussyboy/sub and support the idea that we are not worthless. There are 190 Twitter accounts associated with that list

Next is this very blog, granted it's new but I talk at length, in greater detail about my thoughts, my experiences, my perspectives of being boy pussy and everything I can up with or answer from followers, like you.

@TeachingSubs on Twitter takes the attitude: "Conditioning a sub takes hard work and dedication. After enough conditioning the sky is the limit! Dominate your submissive and it will surrender itself." A very clear homoerotic account.

@HeirachyPcast on Twitter: "The podcast dealing with human Hierarchy truth. He also runs a website called, "Fags Worship Alphas" http://fagsworshipalphas.com/ He's also written a book, "May I Serve You Sir" by Sam Duncan. Both the Twitter and his blog are very homocentric.

These were found with a fast search on Amazon. I'd read the reviews/comments before purchase.


"Ask the Man Who Owns Him" by David Stein available at: https://www.amazon.com/Ask-Man-Who-Owns-Him/dp/098236931X/ref=pd_sim_14_1/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=098236931X&pd_rd_r=c895ca95-8fb3-4b49-b9b2-c083fd31d912&pd_rd_w=9YC1w&pd_rd_wg=o9mrg&pf_rd_p=d338b989-51db-4d99-9bd8-988f67d205eb&pf_rd_r=CPRE8KTHDGEN555WS0R1&psc=1&refRID=CPRE8KTHDGEN555WS0R1

"Slavecraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude" by Guy Baldwin at: https://www.amazon.com/Slavecraft-Roadmaps-Erotic-Servitude-Principles/dp/1881943143/ref=pd_bxgy_img_2/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1881943143&pd_rd_r=b0221b4a-756b-46f8-a4f8-36a91726cea6&pd_rd_w=0MZLC&pd_rd_wg=OnQOJ&pf_rd_p=ce6c479b-ef53-49a6-845b-bbbf35c28dd3&pf_rd_r=VJYQM7GF6JFAKZJ0MT01&psc=1&refRID=VJYQM7GF6JFAKZJ0MT01

"The Ties that Bind" by Guy Baldwin at: https://www.amazon.com/Ties-that-Bind-Leather-Commentaries/dp/1881943097/ref=pd_bxgy_img_2/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1881943097&pd_rd_r=c2e6e696-5287-40cc-815e-3d0eda47175f&pd_rd_w=QoYpR&pd_rd_wg=iUqII&pf_rd_p=ce6c479b-ef53-49a6-845b-bbbf35c28dd3&pf_rd_r=4S1XCZPF7FY54P6PCJSR&psc=1&refRID=4S1XCZPF7FY54P6PCJSR

"The Master's Manuel" by Jack Rinella at: https://www.amazon.com/Masters-Manual-Handbook-Dominance-1994-08-01/dp/B01FIXDVF4/ref=pd_sbs_14_5/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01FIXDVF4&pd_rd_r=c9d4c6d8-03a7-458c-80c1-6aabe675c4a0&pd_rd_w=fpfjq&pd_rd_wg=6ppbr&pf_rd_p=b65ee94e-1282-43fc-a8b1-8bf931f6dfab&pf_rd_r=7JWYVKMM40H7RGF27GBN&psc=1&refRID=7JWYVKMM40H7RGF27GBN

"Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" by Elizabeth Cramer. However with a "straight couple on the cover I'm not sure if she covers gay thinking. Link found here: https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Submissive-Training-Step-step/dp/1494236257/ref=pd_bxgy_img_2/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1494236257&pd_rd_r=dc02fefd-70ab-477a-9629-92d68e4fbf6e&pd_rd_w=mJuS0&pd_rd_wg=vprrc&pf_rd_p=ce6c479b-ef53-49a6-845b-bbbf35c28dd3&pf_rd_r=YPZJ5FT2B2GZ3F3SJ5DT&psc=1&refRID=YPZJ5FT2B2GZ3F3SJ5DT

I'm sure this a scratch on the surface, but it's a beginning. We all start our journey's somewhere, someway; and what is so wonderful about it is that our journey is uniquely and wonderfully our own. Now two journeys are the same, and that is ok! We all wouldn't want to be the same. Be open minded, be adventurous, journal your thoughts-feeling-emotions-fantasies-experiences, be bold, be courageous and finally slowly find yourself. Your gut will tell you, you're on the right path. That's how it all started with me and discovering the word pussyboy at 54 yo years old. So anything is possible. Good luck!

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