Pussyboi's appreciation post!

Honestly more of you eager pussyboi's should be wearing things like this. Just own it and yourselves. Be the fem boi, that you know you are, embrace it, celebrate it! Wear lace panties, and... lingerie. It makes you pretty, prissy and fem as fuck, and MEN love to fuck pretty, prissy, fem bois who know that they have a pussy. Keep yourself smooth. Dress like the pretty little pussy bitches we are. I promise it won't make Daddy's think you’re “less of a man” because that’s impossible; simply because while you might be male--- or identify that way-- deep down we both know that isn't necessarily true. When we’re slobbering on our cock---moaning, drooling, gagging---taking his big dick up our hungry pussies every chance we get; I promise Daddy doesn’t think of you like a man. Be HIS good girl, dress like it, act like and even put yourself in chastity.

If you read this blog, and I hope you do, you know I'm a HUGE fan of emasculation and I do my best to do it to myself as much as I can; and again if you've read this blog at length then you've hopefully read my thoughts on #thirdgenderpussy--- see that post to read in depth as that is how I identify. That being a pussyboy is in itself a gender, if you will. Neither male per say nor female per say but something uniquely us and uniquely fem. Of course not all pussyboy's are fem, and I'm not necessarily pushing for that, it just happens to work for me that I see myself as a big girly-boi comfortable in his gender identity as such.

The purpose of this blog at one point before two Twitter suspensions was to answer readers questions, do interviews, and I've even promoted a book on here. I hope that what you find here is encouraging, empowering, and even sexy. Here is where you will see the memes, that I feel were part of my suspensions.

The bottom in this photo is @glitterybttm Declan Blake who if you watch his posted videos says "pussy" a lot so check him out.

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Interview: Achilles & Patroclus/@APatroclus on Twitter

@APatroclus was a lil concerned with his grammar and spelling when I approached him, but personally that is part of his charm and wit. 

My first question is you talk about the marines in your tweets are you active duty, reserves, or is there something else I'm not aware of as I've never been in the military?

I'm active duty... 10 years in the Marine Corps...enlisted.

It seems from your tweets that being a Marine plays a big part into your sex life, or how you view your sex life. If that's correct, how does that impact it, or make it different? Will that idea still be relevant when you leave the Marines?

yeah yer def right...Marines is a brotherhood of warriors... we're body proud... proud of our cocks & how many chicks we fuck... there's a lot of homo sex kinda 'built in' to being a Marine... like we don't being naked around each other or jacking off...when we deploy we'll jack each other off sometimes or even give each other blow jobs... some of us are really into assfucking... andit's just part of the warrior brotherhood to show yet dominance over another dude by fucking yer in his ass and making him like it, like even pop a fuckin boner and cum from u fucking him... and we like being dominated like that by a bro... that's why its almost  like a joke that Marines like getting fuckd... but its gotta be by a real man not some faggoty type dude.

Based on that last part of your comment about "faggoty type dudes" do you think getting rid of the "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy changed how the Marines are? Or possibly how these type of guys, which I am the "faggoty" type are seen?

Yeah i think it changed it... was hotter when u had to sneak around... everybody knowed about it... knew who the cocksuckers were... who liked fucking dudes... all that... now its like less masculin' somehow... like they ain't even gotta pretend they in 2 chicks or nothing... was hotter when we'd fukin' go out & flirt maybe fuck sum chicks then go back 2gether & fuck each other.

Your tweets seem to reflect what you just said here. Som my question is do you see yourself as more bisexual than gay? I know it's not such an usual thing in some circles, but in others, I think there is still this attitude of pick a side? Or do you see that as a non-issue?

I don't really like them labels but yeah, def bi. U like pussy and I like cock. To me it's just bein' fuckin' Man.. usin' my cock on whoever the fuck turns me on. And with hot duded I like getting cock in my pussy too. And yea I feel like I ain't gotta 'pick a side' cuz I ain't into bein' sum fuckin' community or whatever. I like fuckin', figthing, and workin' out... and generally raisin' hell <haha>... Turns off a lot of Marines who like homofuckin' to say yet gat cuz we don't wanna be aprt of sum political shit or wtf... Just wanna fuck and have fun u know. Hope I ain't pissin' u off bro. Got sum typos in there hahaha.. u probly can figure em out tho...yer smarter than me 4 sure.

Oh, you aren't pissing me off at all. Everybody has a very unique journey that them, then you know, thank god we all aren't the same, you know. How fucking boring would that be? I asked for the interview because I love the tweets you send out, and the biggest reason being is you are among one of the most masculine guys around who call your asshole, pussy. Which brings me to my next question. How did that realization, if you will, that you have a 'pussy' come about?

Thanks man! thats awesome... about being unique and all.. and glad u like my tweets. Well for me it started cuz my daddy, I mean my my real daddy Jake.. he was fucked when he was a kid, like 11 or 12.

Your father was fucked at 11 or 12?

Anyway, he liked it... so did his 1/2 brother my uncle Randy.. he got fucked too by the same step dad but was even younger... I think thats when the started talkin' 'bout their fuck hole as their pussy.

That had to been years ago right?

So when i started gettin' horny as a young duded, like 11 or so... Jake was the 1st on to fuck me... told me he was gonna give me a man's pussy... said thats how dudes talk & i should get used to it.. just be real open 'bout wut i wanted and all that... lie dont say 'lets go to bed' or shit like that but 'i want yer cock... or i wanna get fucked in my pussy'... and since he talked that way 'bout himself me and Troy was the same way... besides i mean it feels real good getting cock in yer ass & makes u cum, so its kinda like a pussy on a man.

Well... I'm 28 and Jake was 13 when he knocked our mama up with us... so yeah, it's been a few years.

This is a great story angle here because it's the very masculine side of being pussy versus this very feminine or sissy side--- which can be just as nice, if that's your thing-- but the "butch" side is seems it is so rarely seen.

i guess... i seen it a lot in the Marine Corps... ev'ry swingin' dick around here is alpha as fuck when we're in public or whaev'r... but just 2 or 3 of us alone wantin' to fuck or get fucked, we just say it like it was normal, 'good fucking pussy bro' and shit like that.

So more of a compliment or attitude than a frame of mind right? Not necessarily, possibly, being a pussyboi. Or is that wrong?

yeah, it ain't a insult or nothin'... just like, if the dude is hot, u wanna fuck his hole... so its pusst.. means you wanna fuck him... dont mean he like a girl or nothin'... just hot to fuck.

I love this attitude, because for some being a pussyboi is that we view our pussied as our only true sex organ, & I'm sure you are aware of that too. Then there is this whole set of us that get off on chastity cages, or say wearing lingerie, or see ourselves as girlboi's and to hear you say that wanting to fuck a guys hole makes his hole pussy is something I've felt for awhile now. If you're getting fucked, admit it or not you're being HIS pussy.

fuckin' A!! Xactly... Marines is real good at syin' things like they are... i don't  get in2 chastity or like not havin' a dick, fuck no! we all love cock, 'specialy our own & wanna use it, get off & all that shit... wanna fuck a dude cuz he's a man, i want him 2 have a ock i can play with or suck but i also wanna fuck him in his pussy & get my own dick off too... i think thats why men is made they way they are, feel that pleazure in our pussy & cock both.

There's this whole denial of pussyboi's not allowed to see or use our cocks, to focus on being a true submissive and fully focus on being pussy for MEN. Dominates like you, to fuck our cunts stupid. Add to this, this idea of calling our cocks...clits. I get off on all of that, as a pussyboy. I love being railed up the pussy and just having my dick flop about. If the top/Dom?Daddy wants to touch my dick he can, as in that moment I'm his. 

What do you think about this side of the more submissive or even, some might term is. faggy side of bottom guys?

No offense, about fag and faggy... just the way we talk.

But yeah, i ain't too good not to fuck a faggy boy... done that with sum Sailors & even sum Marines... in the air wing tho not the infantry hahaha... i mean its good pussy & its fun to get rough on a dude who gets off on it... but mainly with them type of duded i just wanna get my cock off, not as in2 the bitch as i would be if he was a dude like me.

Oh no offense taken at all. Being a 'fag', or at least sexually speaking is a whole other mind set. I'm approaching 55, and in my 20's so many of us reclaimed those words, and in power; and especially with activist groups like Queer Nation and ACT UP.

You might be surprised by the things I call myself Daddy Achilles <giggle>.

hahaha maybe... i done heard a lot tho.. even tho i'm only 28.

You might even know some I don't. <lol>

What I find so encouraging is your generation doesn't seem to have as many hangups as mine did, and in many ways things are far easier; like coming out, the internet for looking up gay content, gay hook up apps and the like.

yeah... i don't know 2 many dudes with hang ups... its like if it feels good go with it... got a lot of Marines to try to getting fuck'd for the 1st time... showed em how to get ready like I was taught by Jake... took it slow made sure they cum... helps havin' a good lookin' face & jack'e body... at least i'm told i'm good lookin'.

I'm sure you're VERY good looking, besides the uniform helps too. Who in their right ever loving mind can resist a man in uniform. Lord knows I NEVER could. I was/am my own personal USO providing pussy for every damn branch including the Coast Guard <lol>.

But I'm sure guys like you like bois like me.

fuck thanks man!! fuck, i'd have u swingin' off my cock if u was here... I like doin' this intervu with u ... its fun.

Oh I'd definitely be swinging off it, for damn sure. Could we talk a lil about Twitter, the company and censorship? I saw your feed three Twitter ID's ago. As I've been suspended twice now fro tweeting about being pussy for men. Is this partially why you misspell and censor yourself?

Yeah. I've been suspended three times for using cunt in replies and shit. It's all bots doin' the censoring so I gotta be careful it don't like I'm callin' somebody a cunt or a pussy. Plus I can't spell for shit. hahha.

Maybe that's part of the appeal too, this himbo thinking you know. The only time Twitter sent an email that made ANY sense at all was that I was misgndering people. Which I took as calling bois pussy <lol>. 

Here's the funny thing though, even Adam4Adam took it on themselves to censor the word 'pussyboi' in my bio <lol>.

So fuckin' uptight about way dudes really talk! Fuck! Only thing I don't like about Twatter.

Me too, I hate it at times. And the one place we can talk the way we do was bdsmlr, but now you can't see what you're following unless you book marked the page.

So what lead you to create your "boypussy" videos?

I like to fuck with loud music blastin' and did that once when I watchin' some porn. Thought it was hot and figured out how to use movie maker and just been  having fun.

I love your videos so very much, and I think there is a real niche for them. It seems so few in gay porn will say things like , "fuck my pussy". Besides I love a GREAT top that fucks to the rhythm  of porn or music.

Fuck yeah!! Thanks bro! That makes me feel real good. Love that. Gonna keep makin' 'em. Appreciate you.

My next question is Troy-boy; is he your real brother, your marine 'brother', or is he a 'created family' type of brother that so may of us do in the gay community?

no, me and Troy is fraternal twins, same mama, same daddy. Just so u know... I'm runnin' outa time here... will. be packing in a couple of hours & then gone for a couple of three weeks.

Ok. Thank you so very much for your time. I appreciate it so much. Safe travels my friend, hopefully you get some boypussy while your gone.

I really want to take the time and deeply thank @APatroclus for his time over the course of a couple of days to do this interview. Words can not begin to express how very much it means to me. I hope all of you enjoyed this interview and if you are not following @Apatroclus, what are you waiting for?!

Acceptance, Self love; tips, memes and my thoughts

This morning I woke up thinking about acceptance. Our acceptance or ourselves. I think that is where it all begins, and everything else follows. So, I'll admit I sleep bottomless. Just a t-shirt nothing else, my shoulders get chilly. Have slept that way since I was about fourteen, couldn't stand the confinement. Anyway, the last year since seeing the @BigCMen and @DevinFranco Pornhub vid, where Daddy Cory calls Devin pussy---which I wrote about here... I wake up every morning, first thing; I open my legs wide, reach down between them and pet, pat and lightly spank my pussy and verbally say, "I love my pussy, thank you for being my pussy."

Sometimes, dig out my dildo and poppers and start the day with some "wreckage". A friend last year, during the height of COVID-19 and my four and a half month self isolation suggested this tip too, which I did every day. Three times a day actually:

Strip naked, get on all fours in bitch pose. Pussy up, legs spread wide, back arched, head on the floor and say, "I am pussy and I LOVE myself being pussy." He recommended saying it fifty times in a row, like chanting and I have a string of Hindu prayer beads that I used to keep track of how many times I was saying it.

You can take this a step further, which is what I did and while riding your favorite dildo say "your mantra". Same amount of times or more. Riding a dildo I would say it every single thrust in and out. In my thinking this cemented my place, even though I had 98% bottomed since day one, first sexual experience right out the gate. Of course after hearing the term Daddy Cory used, I stumbled accidentally on the term pussyboy and as a writer, my research went into overkill. I HAD to understand this thinking. HAD to! Once I did, as Ms. Cracker says, "Shabbat, shablam" it all made sense. I had been that all my life and didn't fully know the term or when it become vogue. The mantra's just cleared the way for my full acceptance. Fem terms are the only ones I use now, for me it is WHO I am. It makes sense to me. It's how I view myself. I write this blog and do what I do on Twitter as I want and feel the need to help others, that's my Daddy side.

I want to celebrate, empower, rejoice in and help others like me to, "Live their best bottom life" or better yet, "Their best pussy life." There never needs to be shame, or guilt, or fear, or doubt or dread. NONE of it, do you hear me! This is my Daddy side kicking in here.

 

Emasculation: Meme's and thoughts

“Stick your tongue out at me, baby boy, and Daddy's going to put it to real good use. Your so goddamn pretty in in your pretty pink panties Daddy bought for you. It's not hard to resist my baby girl looking like that”. This was the warning I gave before I fucked his throat pussy over and over, blowing load after load on his face until he was completely glazed. Then I made him lick it all up. My finger comes out of his slick pussy. I give a lil slap on his boi-ovaries and I let go of his face.

"Turn around, baby girl, show Daddy that beautiful pussy." 

Then them hands was on my pussy. Just rubbing them pussy-cheeks. Slapping me playfully, jiggling them..

"That's a hot fucking pussy, baby girl and that goddamn perfect lil baby girl cunt."

I guess he was just looking at my fucking cunt, cause Daddy sure as fuck wasn't touching it yet, just playing with my pussy-cheeks.

 I proceeded to pound those cakes and blow another load in its petite little boy pussy.

Insolence has its price. In this case it’s a bruised throat and gaping boicunt.

This morning my mind is on emasculation.

Goggle dictionary describes emasculate as: Depriving a man of his role or identity. Synonyms include: effeminate, effete, unmanly. unmasculine, girlish, namby-pamby, sissy, girly, camp, limp wristed, queeny and epicene

Or to make a man weaker or less effective. Synonyms include: weakened, make feeble, debilitate, enfeeble, enervate, dilute, and erode.

Personally I enjoy the idea of being girly and limp wristed. I'm gay, duh. I'm supposed to be a bit campy in my opinion, and maybe that's my generational thinking as I'm soon to be 55. I'm also a pussyboy power bottom. I adore getting fucked, and fucked stupid. You know, walking a bit funny, your pussy is sore from use, it could be difficult to sit. More or less, in some vernacular some would say I'm a faggot. I don't mind that word either but this is coming from a place of my being involved with Queer Nation and ACT UP. I was a big time, very loud activist nationally. I embraced by faggotness.

I didn't and still DON"T want to assimilate. I am not everyone else. I am not the societal norm, by far. I don't see myself as male or female. Possibly non-binary, but I've written on here this idea of being a third gender, and then taking it the step further that I'm just my true sex organ, and that sex organ happens to be my boipussy. That being pussy is my gender. I know it's very unique, different and possibly disturbing idea but I think it wraps up beautifully who I am. 

Submissive, yes. Passive, yes to the point you would think I was June Cleaver. Does my pleasure come from being of use to a dominant, hell yes. Does that pleasure come from being HIS pussy, fuck yes. Put me in thigh highs, chastity and even high heels you bet your life. Call me a girl, yes. Am I a housewife type, you better believe it.... henny I was Martha Stewart before Martha ever hit the scene.

I don't mind emasculation. Hell, I thrive there. But, here lately I see myself with someone like me in a long term committed relationship, loving each other but in an open relationship where we service MEN together and separately but come home to each other for our own fun together. Maybe, somebody younger than me, or just a tiny bit older.... as I've always been the younger "boi" in my long-term relationships.

Properly Presented Pussy: Meme's and my thoughts

This morning I want to talk about "perfectly presented boipussy". We should know what that is, right?

For me it means preferably on all fours, legs spread which which seperates your pussy cheeks,  back arched, pussy high in the air and on full glorious, wonderful display. The kind of display that wants to make you either eat him out for hours on end, or if your a top fuck him stupid.

I first got the idea of "pussy presentation from @VikingMuscleXXX and his infamous line "Present that pussy to Daddy". I went weak in the knees hearing it the first time and in all actuality in my home I presented my pussy to him! I'm not lying. I wouldn't be lying if I said I want in all actuality desperately want to do that for him. I think he truly needs an experienced, more mature pussy that KNOWS how to be it and in ways that only I/we as older gay men can do.

I feel it is imperative as pussy for men, we PERFECT our presentation. That way they WANT to NEED to fuck us. Many years ago my first lover Michael told naive me at 19 in 1986 "that when at the baths, and in a room with the door open you, and you bottom you must show yourself off in  the perfect way to draw tops. That your pussy does the talking." Michael basically said it years earlier, and it is still a motto I go by today.

I also think that a perfectly presented pussy reiterates my/your place. That we/you/I get it who we are, why we are the way we are. That in our proper pussy presentation we FULLY embrace who and what we are....

 

Do you think having a micro penis is important for a sub boy?

So a guy I follow on my new Twitter... @CjDale66  asked his followers this question. 

Do you think having a micro penis is important for a sub boy? I want to seriously work on it and I don't know if the alphas appreciate it 

I personally in the last year have come to realize, and have come to a full conclusion that it is VERY important. 

I'll begin by saying I'm a grower. My dick doesn't show! He's a bit of a nubbin limp. Fully hard though I'm 7.5 cut inches. Not huge, but not dinky either. Kind of packing. But as a bottom pussyboy, my dicklet has never fully been my big thing! I'm the kind of guy that doesn't even touch my junk.

That said back in 1988, at the age of 18 I was THEN wearing jocks to hide my junk. The focus, well,  on my pussy. Still, even more so, since last year March learning of the term and realizing I've been that my whole life.

If I wear anything during sex it is a jock, although I tend to call them pussybra's <lol>!

I just bought my first chastity device too. A silicone one. With a decent shaft one it as I'm not sure I'm ready to explore shrinkages, although I find it very erotic. I also don't use masculine terms for my penis. I use clitty, dicklet, and nubbin/nub. I do it as I don't see myself as a MAN, male yes but MAN no. My mind set is very sub, very pussy centric that in and of itself is NOT masculine in my mind. I'm very much 3rd gender as I write about here. Pronouns; he, they, her. I could very easily be Daddy's good girl.

"I'm Daddy's good girl" 

this link is my example of what I mean.  

I, truly, believe this that a Daddy/DOM/MAN doesn't want to really, fully see your dicklet. He wants to see that pussy. Nothing else, especially your alleged "manhood". So hide it away in a jock, Lock it up. Daddy/DOM/MAN certainly doesn't want to see you playing with it as he fucks you, UNLESS and only if he says you can or asks you too. There's only dick if your with that kind of guy and it's HIS, not yours. A lot of THEM want us in chastity too. It forces us to focus on OUR true sex organ.

If they do want to see our dicklets, and especially during fucking us, they want more than anything, I feel, to see our dicklets very limp, flopping around during sex. Caged and flopping around even better, because I feel even then that their thinking is we are focused on serving them even in that situation as our focus is on our pussies, with their dick stuffed in it and doing what we need to do with our pussy to bring them to ejaculation and breeding us.

I really feel so much of this is our mind set as his sub, or as his pussy, or even as his faggot. I also think there are depths to this mind set, meaning deeper thoughts then here. One example: that by doing this things, our sacrificing these things are our way of better serving him and being of service to him. Our needs don't matter in the least, a lot of the time. Our true joy, true fulfillment comes in being the very best us for him in the way HE wants us.

I do find that in the back of my brain that even I want to explore shrinkage, because even in shrinkage we are better serving, and fully serving him. In our shrinkage we become better pussy, that our focus truly is forced to our pussies even more so. Some so go so far as to be mounded... surgically inserted into us, but left with enough out to piss. A few go so far as to have it fully removed, or so I here. That's a whole other thing, for a whole other time...maybe. I think shrinkage also makes us less male, if you will, as virility is based on size.; and for those of us, myself included we don't even see ourselves fully male either. See other posts on this especially the one on being third gender. I see myself as "Daddy's good girl" while being his boi. That make sense? I hope.

My final piece of advice: go get naked, grease up your pussy, grab your poppers, and your favorite porn, and go wreck your pussy for Daddy Charlie.... but leave ur nubbin alone. lol>

Superiority?

 So, I posted this on Twitter awhile back, something I found on the Internet that I felt fit what I Tweet about, which is being pussyboy, which in my mind--- at least-- is a step differnt than just sub. That, at least for me, I see myself more than just a sub. Maybe, a bit deeper into the mindset-- if you will, but the same ideas just off kilter a bit. I't hard to explain as I'm still trying to process what I truly want to say about MY being pussy, which has changed my first post here on the topic.

Anyway, I got a reply back:

I don't mean to be disrespectful. But I've spent my entire life with that inferiority issue, due largely in part to being overweight and "average." I refuse to be humiliated and shamed just because I don't look like a mainstream porn star. Yet likely perform better than some. I guess this is why I make a lousy sub. I love servicing men, and I take great joy in doing it. I am known for putting the needs/desires of others first. But I am not inferior. As a matter of fact, a skilled "inferior" can have a great deal of control over the "superior" one.

Ok, this is just MY TAKE on this issue. Superiority in my thinking is he has achieved something I never will... MACHISMO! A strong masculine pride. I'm far from masculine. I've been accused of, in the past, of being far too sissified for my own good. Uh, yup. Bingo, you win a prize; and you know something I'm damn proud of it too. I'm gay! I love sex with men! I take it up the ass as much as I can get it. I rarely ever top; I can actually count the times. I view my "hole" as pussy. I call it that, and I enjoy... believe it or not... being emasculated because I've never fully seen myself as a man. I certainly don't see myself as a woman either, I'm unique. Third gender if you will, as Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld wrote and spoke about in the 1890's to 1930's. A male, with a feminine soul.

I wasn't meant to top other men. I knew this very early on, like at fifteen or so; But I knew very early on I was different. The word gay came into my life at thirteen when the bullying started, but it also made everything click. Oh that is what this is. I'm also the type that makes a great housewife. Actually the military came in with one of those tests of what you can do based on a myriad of things and I was told I could be a housewife, or a secretary if I APPLIED myself to do that <lol>. I'm also the type to blur gender lines; like wearing high heeled shoes wearing a man's suit or wear makeup as a man. But I've always been like that. It doesn't make me less just different. Different is good for if we were all the same life would be boring as fuck!

But, societal norms say that does NOT qualify as "manly" before. My response is fuck that! Why do I have to fit YOUR norms? I don't. Not now. Not ever. I'm happy being male, happy being a sissy, happy being a #girlboy, happy being seen as effeminate. I'm truly me and aren't we all suppose to be that way? Our own true selves.

Now on to another issue.... I'm 54 fucking years old! In gay life that's like 350 years old. I've always been average. Always. And as I age, it's still true. But what percentile of our population fit that stereotype? I think it few and far between, with average guys making up the bulk; but we are forced feed this societal norm of male beauty, masculinity, youth, ruggedness and other bullshit that we for MANY reasons buy into it. In all of my years of having sex with men, the vast majority are just average... like me. I've had a few real "head turners" in my day but they are very few; and the older I get the less it happens. Old in gay life seems to represent undesirable but yet last year when I did research into aging and being gay 60% of our LGBTQIA+ population is OVER 50 years old! Where is that representation? Where is that gay porn? Where are those models and images--- you get the idea. No where because aging for society is undesirable as well. Honey we all, for the most part do it. As my Gram used to say it beats the alternative!

I'm going to be brutally honest here. I've suffered from body dysmorphia my entire life when it comes to my weight, and no matter what I weigh it is 3000% worse than reality! From being anorexic at 105 pounds--- I stand 5ft. 10 in. by the way--- to obese at 280 pounds. So I get the issue big time. In the last year and a half I went from 280 to 180. I look amazing! I feel better too. But I worked my butt off. But, if I get back up there I know now I'm comfortable with my self image--- finally--- no matter what I weigh. Health is a different issue for me, anyways but that's another post <lol>.

I think, at least for some of us, that are subs we might long to be the things we are not; but true happiness comes in knowing who you are, what you are and what you want. Accepting it, embracing it, and finally celebrating it!

I think our journey's in life are uniquely our own. Our struggles, trials, triumphs, tragedy's, successes, failures or whatever are also uniquely our own as we individually handle these issues differently. The paths we choose are different. The results are different. It's all different. But, I also think we can all learn from each other if we just listen.

Superiority and inferiority is a societal pressure. Somebody, always has to be better at something, or so it seems. But I'm not one that advocates shaming, belittling, bullying others EVER! Differences just make us different nothing more.

Chastity cages, ejaculations, and orgasms---- oh my

 I just have a question , not sure who to ask. Perhaps you have an answer for me. So, I’ve been in chastity for about a month and a few weeks. I came the other day my rubbing and tugging my cage. Cum dribble out of it. Is that cheating ? I mean is that actual orgasm or just ejaculation ? Thanks

I got this question on Twitter about four days ago, and this is the first chance I've had to answer it.

I'm going to assume first off that you don't have a Daddy/Dom/Sir to turn to with this kind of question, and that based on the way you formed the question that this "just happened" where with a Daddy/Dom/Sir this may not have happened at all. Who really knows? I know it probably isn't the best to just assume things from a question, from a guy I don't well. It does happen all the time though. I think people presume all kinds of nonsense about us even if they just see us in passing. So many of us I think have just become accustomed to it, that for many of us we never give it a second thought.

First thing, I've got to commend you on being in chastity for a month, and by the sounds of it all by yourself. Meaning you took the leap to do it, realizing that this was something you needed for yourself, to complete yourself. I've debated it since March, but haven't worked up the courage to do it as of yet. Hopefully next year. But your doing it needs to be commended and I think so many of us a "fellow brothers", if you will, this is the least we could do for each other.

I've heard from so many guys on Twitter say that once cock-caged they feel free to be themselves, this almost "non-male", if you will, and that so many once having done it realize that for them their source of pleasure is their "pussy". Please see other posts about the thinking behind all of that, why recreate the wheel, when you can read about it. That their "cocks" are not even really part of the equation, and the more I think about that, the hotter it gets.

I've just recently have read about guys using vibrators on or below their cock-cages to "cum" without getting fully hard. I've not read if they feel it is "cheating" however. With that said, if your a bottom guy who is cock-caged and thinks otherwise I for one would love to hear your thoughts. I've also read quite a bit about "weak orgasms, dribbling, hands free orgasms" from dildo use, or even just taint stimulation. I've done completely hands free once and it was mind blowing to say the least. Dribbling I seem to a lot of, is it equal to an ejaculation--- no it's not, it's not even close to that, but when I think dribbling I think more of a dribble ejaculation that is caused by not using your hands.

I think tugging and or rubbing your cage is ok. Not cumming at all, ever, is not healthy for a long period of time and could produce health problems later on. What could be viewed as wrong is your taking off your cage and having a good old fashioned wank. Other chastity boys might agree with me. I think their are many ways to cum/orgasm with or even without ejaculation.

One of which is prostate orgasms, I call them pussy-gasms, others call them fag-gasms; it's all the same thing and these I do have a lot. My record is five in two hours of dildo use. My legs were weak afterward. The feeling is way more intense than just an ejaculation caused by a wank. These are full body waves of pleasure crashing over you. For me the start very deep with in me, after all mine have all come from dildo use. A warm sensation, then tingling, the pulsing and building and building until woosh, here it comes. Feels like a flood almost, and every time I have one I end up shaking-- in a good way. Many ways if or when I have one I don't feel the need to ejaculate at all. 95% of the time when I've had one my dick has been limp as a dishcloth, completely ignored. But that is me, and it may or may not be the same for everyone, so keep that in mind.

Personally, I wouldn't make a big habit out of rubbing or tugging your cage especially if you feel "guilty" later, this is about pleasure not guilt. However, with that said, if you continue to do so, do so guilt free. I think there are other venues to pursue to reach an orgasmic state.

Training Manual for fags and/or Alpha's

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recently got this question on Twitter: 

"Mate is there such a thing as a training manual for faggots? Or something which alpha lads can read to educate them about the differences between alphas and fags?"

So, I'm going to start with the easiest answer first; which is follow my Twitter @BBbttmwhore53 as my feed is all about being a pussyboy, from my perspective as one. Meme's, storied gifs, and retweets I feel fit my theme for Twitter. Guys seem to love it, and I love doing it. Everything about being a pussy boy without the shame, guilt, fear or the degrading aspects that some view us as worthless. It's all positive, reinforcing and hopefully encouraging.

I also run a list on my Twitter called: "Training accounts 4 fags" twitter.com/i/lists/1282439061043589120  which are accounts I feel support my ideas about being the proper pussyboy/sub and support the idea that we are not worthless. There are 190 Twitter accounts associated with that list

Next is this very blog, granted it's new but I talk at length, in greater detail about my thoughts, my experiences, my perspectives of being boy pussy and everything I can up with or answer from followers, like you.

@TeachingSubs on Twitter takes the attitude: "Conditioning a sub takes hard work and dedication. After enough conditioning the sky is the limit! Dominate your submissive and it will surrender itself." A very clear homoerotic account.

@HeirachyPcast on Twitter: "The podcast dealing with human Hierarchy truth. He also runs a website called, "Fags Worship Alphas" http://fagsworshipalphas.com/ He's also written a book, "May I Serve You Sir" by Sam Duncan. Both the Twitter and his blog are very homocentric.

These were found with a fast search on Amazon. I'd read the reviews/comments before purchase.

"Ask the Man Who Owns Him" by David Stein available at: https://www.amazon.com/Ask-Man-Who-Owns-Him/dp/098236931X/ref=pd_sim_14_1/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=098236931X&pd_rd_r=c895ca95-8fb3-4b49-b9b2-c083fd31d912&pd_rd_w=9YC1w&pd_rd_wg=o9mrg&pf_rd_p=d338b989-51db-4d99-9bd8-988f67d205eb&pf_rd_r=CPRE8KTHDGEN555WS0R1&psc=1&refRID=CPRE8KTHDGEN555WS0R1

"Slavecraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude" by Guy Baldwin at: https://www.amazon.com/Slavecraft-Roadmaps-Erotic-Servitude-Principles/dp/1881943143/ref=pd_bxgy_img_2/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1881943143&pd_rd_r=b0221b4a-756b-46f8-a4f8-36a91726cea6&pd_rd_w=0MZLC&pd_rd_wg=OnQOJ&pf_rd_p=ce6c479b-ef53-49a6-845b-bbbf35c28dd3&pf_rd_r=VJYQM7GF6JFAKZJ0MT01&psc=1&refRID=VJYQM7GF6JFAKZJ0MT01

"The Ties that Bind" by Guy Baldwin at: https://www.amazon.com/Ties-that-Bind-Leather-Commentaries/dp/1881943097/ref=pd_bxgy_img_2/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1881943097&pd_rd_r=c2e6e696-5287-40cc-815e-3d0eda47175f&pd_rd_w=QoYpR&pd_rd_wg=iUqII&pf_rd_p=ce6c479b-ef53-49a6-845b-bbbf35c28dd3&pf_rd_r=4S1XCZPF7FY54P6PCJSR&psc=1&refRID=4S1XCZPF7FY54P6PCJSR

"The Master's Manuel" by Jack Rinella at: https://www.amazon.com/Masters-Manual-Handbook-Dominance-1994-08-01/dp/B01FIXDVF4/ref=pd_sbs_14_5/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01FIXDVF4&pd_rd_r=c9d4c6d8-03a7-458c-80c1-6aabe675c4a0&pd_rd_w=fpfjq&pd_rd_wg=6ppbr&pf_rd_p=b65ee94e-1282-43fc-a8b1-8bf931f6dfab&pf_rd_r=7JWYVKMM40H7RGF27GBN&psc=1&refRID=7JWYVKMM40H7RGF27GBN

"Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" by Elizabeth Cramer. However with a "straight couple on the cover I'm not sure if she covers gay thinking. Link found here: https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Submissive-Training-Step-step/dp/1494236257/ref=pd_bxgy_img_2/139-2511822-0887204?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1494236257&pd_rd_r=dc02fefd-70ab-477a-9629-92d68e4fbf6e&pd_rd_w=mJuS0&pd_rd_wg=vprrc&pf_rd_p=ce6c479b-ef53-49a6-845b-bbbf35c28dd3&pf_rd_r=YPZJ5FT2B2GZ3F3SJ5DT&psc=1&refRID=YPZJ5FT2B2GZ3F3SJ5DT

I'm sure this a scratch on the surface, but it's a beginning. We all start our journey's somewhere, someway; and what is so wonderful about it is that our journey is uniquely and wonderfully our own. Now two journeys are the same, and that is ok! We all wouldn't want to be the same. Be open minded, be adventurous, journal your thoughts-feeling-emotions-fantasies-experiences, be bold, be courageous and finally slowly find yourself. Your gut will tell you, you're on the right path. That's how it all started with me and discovering the word pussyboy at 54 yo years old. So anything is possible. Good luck!

the dichotomy of boipussy vs. boycunt

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