A Quick Guide to Pussy-gasms

 Quick Guide To Pussy Orgasms

Since I still get asked a lot on how to do it, I’ll try to sum it up quickly for you pussybois :)

DISCLAIMER: I am not a doctor and I realize that not everybody is built the same. What works for me does not necessarily have to work for you. I also realize that there’s a difference between milking ur princess spot and having a pussy orgasm. 

Short explanation: Milking feels nice and ends with ejaculation while a pussy orgasm explodes inside ur pussy and doesn’t always mean you eject semen.

STEP 1
Chastity. You don’t need a device to lock your clitty away (even though I think it’s fucking awesome). But you shouldn’t jerk off for at least 10 days if it’s ur very first time. That’ll help, also when you’re having moral doubts for whatever reason. My first time having a pussy orgasm I was not in chastity at the time, however I was dildo-ing myself 2-3 times a day for 2-3 hours as it was at the very start of COVID and self isolating in 2020 & I had nothing better to do that wreck my pussy.

STEP 2
Hygiene. Give yourself an enema/shower shot and make sure that you’re really clean. And make sure that pussy is completely hairless. Objects entering your pussy will pull on your hair down there and it will not feel nice.

STEP 3
Choose the right weapon. For me, a realistic dildo works the best. And it’s shape is very important. See this picture?

The parts that I circled are the most important ones and are going to rub against your princess spot. That’s right. Don’t poke your princess spot like you’re trying to stab it. Firmly scrape against it with that part of the glans instead. Forget about your clitty. Don’t even touch it. STAY FULLY LIMP!I mean it. Only one cock matters right now and it’s not the one attached to your body.

STEP 4
Relax your pussy. There is absolutely no need to hurry. You don’t have any other place to go right now. It’s very important that you explore your pussy gently with lots of lube until penetration does not feel uncomfortable at all. For those of us who are hoe's this won't take long, lol. Fuck yourself for a while and don’t think about how much time already passed. Watch some hard core gay fucking porn while you’re at it and try to visualize how you might cum from getting fucked. Remember that awesome sex is mostly happening in your brain.

STEP 5
The right position. I have no explanation for this. But when I started with regular solo pussy masturbation, laying flat and working the dildo In and out worked the best for me to cum from getting solo dildo fucked. On my side was great too. But every person is different.

STEP 6
Don’t be a lazy fuck. Some people play with their pussies for hours and expect a miracle to happen. That’s the wrong idea, in my opinion. You gotta work those pussy walls. Like this:

Well I realize that this little animation might look a bit silly. But that’s actually what I usually do. While my pussy stays mostly relaxed during my fuck sessions, I flex the inner part of my pussy against the cock that’s pounding it. 

STEP 7

Practice. It took me over a year to learn this. And when I first fucked the cum out of my ovaries and by pussy use alone I was playing with myself for more than an 2 hours. But today it only takes me a few minutes, when I’m in the right mood. Don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t seem to work. Give your pussy a few days rest and try again. And remember that no part of this should ever hurt. If it hurts you’re doing it wrong and you should stop before you injure yourself. Seriously.
Good luck and happy puusy-bating!

Why Chastity: One point of view

I don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the gusto for “caging” a dick.

Fair question.

   Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do : Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dicklet. 

He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the key holder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating. Chastity too for many creates a new terminology for one's dick: dicklet, nubbin, clitty and others that also emasculate. And for many of us, myself included emasculation is a BIG turn on.

 

Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny. You’d be surprised what males are ready to do or want to do after not being able to cum for a few days or weeks or even months. That makes him look for pleasure in other places and this usually ends up being their pussy. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In boys who have sex with boys’ cases they think about dick non-stop. They start playing with their ass to get some release so their pussy becomes their ONLY sex organ. And because their pussy is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not just a hole anymore. It’s pussy. They may not want to call it that, but that’s what it is in their head and that's what it is when they get fucked. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure from his new sex organ-- his pussy.

Chastity improves sex for the boy. Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game over for many. Your top has to stop because you may not enjoy being fucked anymore. That problem goes away with chastity. Boys are always ready and eager. That, of course, makes sex better for me. Not to mention the hands free orgasm the boy can achieve after enough time in chastity. Once a boy cums without stimulating his clit, he’s changed forever; as he no longer needs to jerk off to ejaculate. The other thing I'd throw in here is the prostate (princess spot or slut button I call it) orgasm; which is vastly different than an ejaculation and in many cases more satisfying than and ejaculation. One other point here is who can have multiples of then very close together. My best record or prostate orgasms (I call them pussygasms) was six times in one dildo session. Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is. You may be a bottom. You may be a sub. You may be both, or just one. But you don’t think about that part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can always feel it, horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your "manhood" was taken away. It keeps you in your place. It never lets you forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male but not a man. For many this means peeing sitting down... more emasculation. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub even outside of the bedroom. For many chastity also enforces this idea that while "male" they have taken on a more feminine role. This though is not always the case but for many it is. For those that it does they may even begin to call themselves/ or view themselves as girls and so do some of their tops.
Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension. That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy to go to the gym or be more productive in general. I’ve heard of boys with a barely average body transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. He doesn’t want it off, because it motivates him so much. And most importantly, I love chastity because it sets clear roles. For me it is giving up my masculinity for HIM, he locks it up as a sign of surrender. HIS dick becomes the only dick in the room and I'm just a set of holes. He's Man, I'm his bitch. Being the boy who is getting fucked while watching my soft clit in my cage being ignored is just very, very hot. I never liked when other bottoms touched themselves during sex. I've always thought touching yourself during sex was disrespectful to tops. I thought the chastity devices looked a little weird at first. But now I love them. If I see one on a boy it makes me rejoice because he too has found his freedom. Because that means that he embraced his role as someone who belongs pussy up underneath Men. And I love being the pussy!

Still More Meme's

These are all memes I created. So if you save these to post somewhere else, please give me the credit. It's all I ask. If you'd like a picture of yourself to be a meme DM me on Twitter & if you'd like to be tagged in the post here where you will be featured.

The above meme was from a previous Twitter follower before my second suspension

 

Lukas Daken Interview

I was so thrilled that Lukas Daken agreed to the interview that follows. I approached her because she identifies as genderfluid and I  myself was struggling with my pronouns and my initial private conversation with her was about that. But out of that grew this and I couldn't be more excited to share it with all of you. Lukas is the very first genderfuid gay porn stars I'm aware of, there may be others but I'm not aware of them.

PB Breckinridge: So when did you first figure out you were a bit more then just the “average run of the mill bottom”, meaning that you saw yourself a bit differently? 

 Lukas Daken: I suppose forever, but I didn’t understand it at all. I grew up very sheltered from any LGBTQIA+ influences, so I had really no role models at all. I guess in my 20’s I discovered far more and realized I was a total bottom. Towards the end of my 20’s I started to accept that I wasn’t just a regular bottom, that this went deeper than that. Looking back on it I guess I always felt that way but didn’t understand the feelings at all. 

PB: I grew up very sheltered as well, and being 55 years old there were not a lot of role models of people that were around and especially in the media. I knew before my very first sexual experiences, at 18 years old, that I was going to bottom, and when it happened it’s all I’ve ever done sexually. Was there a “trigger point” or something that happened that led to your understanding and realization of yourself? 

 LD: I don’t think there was one specific thing, I never enjoyed when I had to top. One day I just realized that I don’t have to. I had a lot of shame surrounding my sexuality. Sometimes I still do. There are good days and bad days—days where I wish I were just “normal”, whatever normal is. If you add non-conforming gender into the mix… well, it was a minefield. I don’t remember the first time I started using the word pussy for my hole. But it was along time ago. I would shyly, almost jokingly, say it to tops, to see their reaction. It was really unusual back then I think and so few guys were into it. Some were genuinely disgusted; which is bizarre, but also added to the shame I felt. Slowly though I started being more open about it. I knew I wanted to pursue this line and not live my life unfulfilled sexually. 

PB: There have been a few times in my blog where I have written that the very first time I heard the word “pussy” in regards to a “man” was back in March 2020 in a @BigCMen and @DevinFrancoXXX Just For Fans video I stumbled on, on Pornhub. Cory made a comment about Devin’s pussy and the rest, as they say is history. But I’ve had cute nicknames in the three long-term relationships I have had including: kitten, baby girl, and even Mrs. But, like you that first time saying to a top, “fuck my pussy” I was terrified. Also like you I have had my share of mixed responses to my saying that. I’m assuming this was little before the start of your porn career. 

LD: That was indeed. 

PB: If I may what led to you doing porn? 

LD: Boredom mostly! I wanted to try it. I probably craved some validation also, but really I just thought it would be exciting! 

PB: I certainly would have given the chance back in my day too. Do you think there is real market I in gay porn for content…that is already being made for Just For Fans/Only Fans or other non-industry venues…where the term “pussy: or the like is used. Alessio Vega is one that comes to mind, but even he within the industry stuff he has done shies away from using the term like his non-industry stuff. If so do you think there is a reason behind it? 

LD: I don’t know. I think potentially there is a market. But in the end porn studios are businesses and it might not be the best business model if it doesn’t a to appeal to a super wide audience. In the gay community there can be backlash or distaste for certain feminine things. We still with masc4masc syndrome to a certain extent I think, even though it’s changing slowly. 

PB: I do think it is very slowly changing, and there are people leading the way. I’ve noticed it more in the last two years, and maybe just “need woke” to see this is a thing with real potential if a “nobody” like me can go from 2,000 followers to over 20,000 in two years time before my first suspension. I think there is a real market for it. My followers are really into it and I’m beyond grateful for it. You mentioned in your previous answer that in your private life about being more open saying in the heat of the moment about being pussy. Do you find more guys are into it now? What is your reasoning why? 

LD: I think more guys are into it now. There’s less shame involved. People are dressing more fem. Social media has led the way slightly. People are making it “cooler”- we are no longer hiding in the shadows pretending we are all masculine. I still present pretty masculine because of decades of pretending, but I’m o longer afraid to BE feminine. It took some people with big followings to lead the way. People are less afraid of enjoying it; and why not? Femininity is amazing, who ever it’s presented in. Femininity is beautiful, strong, powerful—the opposite side of the same coin as masculinity. It SHOULD be celebrated just as much. You have/had 20,000 followers or elsewhere? 

PB: I’ve to agree with you here on this, as it’s why I started tweeting the way I did two years ago, as I saw so little and then there was this whole “shame” side I completely disagreed with, as well as “being less than” side that I am completely against. We are just very different, and in my opinion, and we do it in such a great way. At one point I did have 20,000 followers on Twitter, but Twitter (the company) decided to suspend me with no real reasoning behind it. It’s why my tweets as so misspelled. I think for me is that I don’t see myself as a MAN, male maybe. There are certain things I will NEVER tweet; and shaming or degrading bottoms is one of them. Without us, there is no real for tops, but without tops there is no real use for us either. 

LD: Absolutely. They (Twitter) suspended you for what? 

PB: Oh lord, some convoluted “misgendering” charge; which the vaguely implied as I allegedly called bottoms “her, she and girls”, calling, it pussy, cunt…blah, blah, blah. 

LD: Fucking hell. It makes me worried for my account, TBH. 

 PB: I think it’s just Twitter’s excuse for cracking down on gay content creators, as a whole, to be honest with you and especially those accounts that are SO m/m sex positive, which we both are! That’s what led to this interview, in all honesty, because you were/are the very first in your field using pronouns in your bio that identifies you as she/her; and now because of a previous and private conversation between you and I. 

 LD: I get paranoid about my account being removed TBH. It’s tricky. 

 PB: Do you think seeing yourself as “pussy” versus being seen a feminine/girly as two separate things, or as two similar things? I ask as there is this whole “kink notion” to both of these ideas. It’s not however that idea fully either. For example: “I’m wanting to be trans… which is a whole different topic IMO for somebody other than me. But I do identify in a big way being seen and identifying as a pussyboy, if that makes any sense and I’m sure it does to you. I still get paranoid about being suspended and it’s why I deeply wish more people would follow my blog. 

 LD: Yes of course. Well I think it’s different, yes. I don’t think we are experiencing gender dysphoria , although I can’t speak for everyone. We are just experiencing a different gender experience to other males. 

 PB: That’s it exactly! 

 LD: But it’s unique to everyone. I can’t speak for others as everyone’s experience is different. It’s important to remember that I think. 

 

PB: I know for me it isn’t dysphoria. I think all we can do is speak from our own experiences, in an honest way and if we are lucky other’s will learn and grow from it. 

 LD: Absolutely. Giving an honest open voice to our experience can open the way for others to be comfortable with their own (experience). I hope. 

 PB: I feel it is. It’s why I do what I do with the tweets and my blog. Did your embracing your feminine side come after you embracing this idea of having a pussy? 

 LD: Yes, I think so. The pussy came first, so to speak. 

 PB: Could you expand that a little; because not every bottom is pussy IMO. 

 LD: No, you’re right. I started to feel that my hole was a pussy. I felt it every time I got fucked. I stopped wanting to cum. It was then that I realized my role was more female than male. 

 PB: I wish I had known that there were others like me and that the language was there, the thinking was there for me for decades. The not wanting to cum, about n=being passive and submissive. For me, years ago, it wasn’t even about the other person who was topping me; it was just the fact that they wanted to have sex with me, and move unto the next person they were fucking. It’s been since March 2020 that the thinking and understanding of what you’re talking about. Once the term pussyboy became part of my vocabulary, everything else clicked and it’s evolved so quickly. I’ve known my role is more feminine for nearly 40 years of having m/m sex, but NOW it’s understanding why that is.

 LD: Did I help at all? 

 PB: You have helped tremendously, and I think my readers are going to enjoy and appreciate the insight. As we both know and when I first approached you, before this interview, because your Twitter bio had listed your pronouns as she/her. You’re the first person who has done what you did. Was that because of everything we’ve talked about…that led you to do that? And do you think your decision to do so had any effect on your work? 

LD: Yeah it was. I think that my porn has gone in a slightly different direction now. I’m somewhere between mainstream and niche.

PB: That’s a good thing, isn’t it?

LD: Sure! I mean it’s a tricky line to balance on, but I’m enjoying it. 

 PB: I’ve only seen very brief video clips you post on your Twitter. So I’m curious, do you say “fuck my pussy” or other pussy talk in your porn? Is that the niche? The other thing I’m noticing in gay porn is chastity-devices, more independent y, but at least it’s there. Is this what you’re talking about, or maybe both? 

 LD: Both yes. Lingerie, chastity and pussy talk. (But) I’m not super verbal in sex, but yes being open about pussy. 

 PB: WOOF!!!!!! All of those things are of course on my list of huge turn-ons. 

 LD: That’s what I’m focusing on now, at least in my own porn. 

 PB: So, Only Fans/Just For Fans or somewhere else? As there was that attempted “porn purge” awhile back on Just For Fans, I believe it was. 

 LD: Only Fans, there was. Yes. But, yes on my fan sites and Pornhub. PB: On Pornhub, just type in your name or do you have your own page on there? I haven’t been there that much since the company

dumped so many videos. LD: I have my own page, yes; but you’ll also see studio work. 

 PB: Great. Do you think studios are becoming more receptive to the type of you and others are doing in regards to pussyboys? 

 LD: That’s a great question. I really don’t know. The pandemic meant I couldn’t for studios for over two years, and it’s in this time that I’ve gone my own direction! I’d be very interested to find if there any studios who are my kind of style tough. 

 PB: It would be interesting because most of the “pussy video”, lets call them, are independent. But the HUGE thing I’ve noticed here recently… in most mainstream gay porn is that the bottoms are not getting erect at all. They’re not touching themselves, and it’s as if there is a nod to this whole “pussy idea”, or at least a submissive side that it’s all about the tops pleasure. On that note, do you think “kink” or what could be called “BDSM” play have any bearing on your thinking bout yourself, or is it two separate things? I’m curious as I’ve not seen anyone really ask this question before. 

 LD: I have the idea to do my own studio actually. So don’t give anyone (studios) the idea. 

PB: I think you having your own studio and creating the type of content you ar doing could be HUGE! 

LD: I hope so. I’m starting with just me, but then expanding. 

PB: I think it’s a great idea.

LD: Thank you. I feel like I can reach an audience of people who will love it.

PB: Girls like us would come in droves!!!! There is I feel a HUGE untapped market. It’s why I’m wanting to include the theme of “being Daddy’s good girl” in the sequel to the book I helped co-author, “Size Kings”, but don’t tell anybody ! 

LD: Nice. How successful was your book? 

PB: I’m not sure as I’m having an issue getting the royalties, as I had to get a new bankcard awhile back. But the only other books are that similar to mine are about a fem Dom boi in “The Orchid and the Lion” by @GHargraveWrites 

 LD: Ah, ok cool. Cool that you wrote that one. 

 PB: I hope it did/does well. 

 LD: Fingers crossed. 

PB: “Size Kings”, I co-wrote with @P_Boi93. It’s about a pussyboi named Luke whose from Texas attending college out of state so he can be himself. However, the first book I ever read about a pussyboy was “Domingo’s Putita” by @Shadows1JM ; which is incredible! Can we cross pussies for good luck that “Size Kings” does well? . I would really it too as it my love letter to people like us. What are your feelings about hierarchy playing into this idea of pussyboys and submissive bottoms? Even if this whole idea is left unspoken by portions of “gay society”. 

 LD: I think that we should be careful to suggest that being feminine somehow means being submissive. I don’t consider my self a submissive just because I play the female role. Not all women are submissive, either, are they? Cock doesn’t equal bigger and better. 

 PB: I wasn’t suggesting that being feminine or a woman was submissive. There are many powerful women, some much more than some men. I do think though there are people who confuse the two, or blur the two; or even fetishize the two. That’s why I was asking the question. It’s also why I don’t tweet or write in the blog that as feminine bottoms that we are less than, or weak, or pathetic, or worthless, or trash or anything that is degrading in anyway. That will NEVER be my thing, as I think that for those of us that takes TRUE power in claiming who we are--- whatever that maybe, and I think that for those of us that take on a more feminine thinking as “males” I think it takes tremendous courage and hutzpah, because society at large treats us and sees us the way they do. 

 LD: Absolutely. Bottom shaming should be a thing of the past. It takes a lot of courage to accept ourselves. PB: Exactly, and that was one reason I starting tweeting the way I did two years ago; to celebrate and empower those of us who do bottom. You can’t have one without the other. LD: Absolutely. And often the work we put in is much greater.

PB: That’s true. A good hard deep rutting is not for the faint of heart . It’s why I tweet every now and then that good bois/gurls do their daily pussy training with their favorite dildo. 

 LD: Ha ha, exactly. Work those muscles

Submissiveness & Pussyboy-ness Question

From a wonderful Twitter Follower

There's a question I may have.

Do you have to be submissive to feel that you have a pussy a clitty or ovaries ? Is submissive a condition to have pussy-gasms ?

I'm going to answer this in two parts, the first question as the first, "Do you have to be submissive to feel that you have a pussy a clitty or ovaries ? "

Have the feeling this is going to be a doozy of an answer. Let's start with my first thought here; your naked, legs spread wide open, head on the bed, arms out in front of you, limp clitty hanging, back arched and your pussy fully exposed & lubed as he is going to fuck the living daylights out of... you're kind of in a submissive situation to begin with, as so many in a hierarchal mind set would say to you and I that:

1. "true men" don't get fucked.

2. "true men" don't think they have pussies, clitty's or ovaries.

3. that those of us who do think/feel that we do have those things and because we actively and primarily are only bottoms---many feel we are girls to begin with.

That might be a hard pill to swallow for some, others embrace parts of it ie: not wanting to be a girl, while others take it all on and celebrate & rejoice in it. Now I'm going to say this right here and now... I'm in NO way "bashing" cis-gender woman, their some of our best allies especially as "sissy" gay men or non-binary "sissies". Femininity in it all of it's forms....including in bois like us... is something to be celebrated, rejoiced in, embraced and yes even revered. It takes a lot of guts as a "guy" to embrace his femininity. It's takes even more to admit he's a pussyboy.

Pussyboy's are a rare but truly wonderful bred of what I call a "third-gender folk", myself included as that is how the whole Twitter & blog thing started with my own journey knowing I've had a pussy since I was 18 and my cherry was popped by the man who would be my "husband". I'm now 57, so nearly 40 years of being pussy for men & not knowing that is who I am or that there was language for it till I was 53. I see being pussy as a gender unto itself, an identity, a set of folk who think like we do. In the process I've also recently come out, again, saying I'm not just gay but non-binary as well. Pronouns... she/her thanks to my conversation with Lukas Dekan who also goes by she/her. I wish pussy was a choice of pronouns!

Now I'm not in anyway suggesting we're all girls, for we are not. Same as not all bottoms are pussyboys, nor want to be. They just happened to get fucked. Much like this long debate on the issue that not all bottom guys are even gay; which I won't even get into. I think it takes a very specific mindset to even identify as a pussyboy. Same thing for using language beyond pussy/cunt/twat/gash for that part of the body and adapting language for our other parts: clitty's, ovaries and princess spots, all of which those terms have been discussed here so if you've read you know. Same thing for going to go even farther to say I'm a girl , or third gender, or non-binary. That's very unique thinking in my opinion and yes some men will be completely turned off by that, that's THEIR, not yours.

In regards to submissiveness some see it as a completely separate issue, some do not. Not all pussyboy's ... those are who we will be specifically talking about here...are submissive's some are Dom Bottom's and rule their tops. I'll speak specifically and honestly about my experience. I've been a boi-wife since I was 18 to three incredible MEN, I was seen as their wife and I have/had no problem with that. Two of them I never topped, ever. One I did five times in 10 years. I've been pussy. I've been submissive. I've been the gay June Cleaver and Martha Stewart into one glorious girly-boi. Fem at times, very. Feminine mind set 100% of the time- laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning, entertaining, grocery shopping, ironing and yes I still do it and of course great sex being pussy up. I've never in those relationships made a decision on my own without some kind of support or encouragement. I never wrote a check till the month before each one died; two of which was the height of the AIDS Crisis. Submissive behavior for me came natural, just like knowing my first sexual experience was wit a man and I was the one getting fucked.

I see getting fucked as a submissive act, especially on all fours or even belly down as your at their "mercy, if you will. AS I said earlier this attitude of "men" don't get fucked. Yea they do, other wise who would gay tops fuck, hello? I see being bred as a submissive act. I see HIS dick and his sperm in me as the only masculinity I will EVER have in me and then their both temporary. It's been a struggle accepting my overt femininity because we're beat over the head that as a"man" that is the worst thing we could do. Oh well, bitch, get over it. SIssy that walk! I can't really separate submissive behavior and being pussy...others can. For me accepting my submissiveness enforces my feminine language about myself and my mindset that I'm a girl. I've discussed that thinking here too, so check out those posts. By language I mean: pussy, clitty, ovaries and princess spot and baby girl. If accepting this helps you great, accept it. If not, oh well, I tried. If this you submissive great, if not there are other choices. You be that fierce Dom Bottom Bitch.

2: Is submissive a condition to have pussy-gasms ?

I'd say no to this based on my experience. Part of this is explained above that as pussy we aren't all submissive. Pussygasms... or princess spot orgasms:

The princess spot — or P-spot, as it’s often called — is a small muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in ejaculate. It helps propel semen from the clitty. It’s also surrounded by nerve endings that can feel oh-so-good when touched just right.

Who can do it?

People assigned male at birth have them, but that doesn’t mean that other folks have to miss out on the fun. Helping someone achieve one of these orgasms is pretty awesome!

Where exactly is the princess spot?

The princess spot is located about two inches inside ur boypussy. You'll be able to feel it. If you need help ask a friend.

How do you find it?

You’ll need to head south along the back road to find it in a magical place called the inner pussy region. Although entering through the pussy is the most direct way, you can also stimulate the princess spot indirectly through the taint-- that area between pussy and ovaries. 

What does the princess spot feel like?

It depends on whether you’re feeling it from the outside or inside. Being aroused makes it swell, so the more turned on you are before you poke around, the easier it’ll be to feel.

From the outside

The taint is firmer near the front of the clitty bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft. It feels softer and fleshier toward the back. This is the area you’re aiming for. You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee. This is a sign that you’re where you want to be — trust me!

From the inside

It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the pussy lining. It’ll feel different from the other tissue in there.

Is it easy to orgasm this way?

Let’s me say it will take some practice and patience and lots of pussy use with your favorite dildo, fingers or from seriously getting cunted all the time. Actual clinical research on princess spot-induced orgasms is seriously lacking in the medical field, so we don’t know how common it is or if it’s possible for everyone with a princess spot to have this type of orgasm. I tend to think with practice, patience, daily pussy workouts with your favorites dildos will help. Every body is different, so some experimenting to see what feels good is in order. If you do manage to have one, reproducing it will be easy.

Now pussy orgasms are very different from ejaculations and especially hands free ejaculations caused by pussy use. I found during the height of COVID, two years ago, when I fully noticed I was having pussygasms. I was also doing daily dildo pussy workouts three times a day at three hours set aside for pussy play. I also found it easier to have multiple pussygasms when I focused on my breathing, keeping my pussy open and relaxed. I found for me poppers helped, and of course that may not be the answer for you. I also found I was producing in my pussy a liquid substance that was covering my dildos and at time would get a frothy white texture to it as well.

What does a pussygasm feel like?

Pussygasms are said to feel similar to clitty orgasms, only way more intense and felt through the entire body as they are internal and are felt deep inside of you. There are stories of people having super orgasms, which are a stream of fast, continuous orgasms that cause the body to shudder. I've had them especially when I've produced more than one in a row, and this can be achieved as well with patience, practice and pussy use. Not everyone ejaculates during a pussygasm, but some release a dribble of milky fluid from their clitty called a a ruined orgasm or ruined ejaculation. Completely hands free ejaculations are possible as well, I've done it twice in two years so again patience, practice and pussy use.

How to get started

A little bit of prep can help make the experience a good one whether you’re flying solo, or on the giving or receiving end of things.

    If you’re the one being pussy:

You’ll want to be as relaxed and aroused as possible, because it’ll make the experience easier and more enjoyable. The whole poop-comes-out-of-the-butt thing gives some people a case of the heebie-jeebies even when it’s their own butt. Remedy this by taking a shower and paying a little extra attention back there to get it squeaky clean. Some people like to use an enema or shower shot before engaging in pussy play.  Most people don't like playing in poo. Use the bathroom before getting started. Princess spot stimulation can make you feel like you need to pee, and  penetration can cause the sensation of needing to pee. Even though you won’t, worrying that you might can interfere with your ability to let go and enjoy yourself. Knowing your bladder and bowels are empty can help. Getting used to the sensation of having your princess spot touched can help, too, especially if your a virgin to any kind of any pussy play. Practice with an sex toy, like a butt plug, or your fingers. Be sure to set the mood so that you’re turned on and primed for action. Light candles, watch porn, or engage in some good old-fashioned foreplay to get there. Finally, be sure to lube up REALLY good. Applying a water-based lubricant will allow for easier penetration and make for some easy gliding if stimulating your prostate externally, although others swear by Vaseline as you stay stickier longer.

If you’re the giving partner

Cleanliness and safety are a must, even for the giver. Cut and file your nails VERY smooth to help avoid scratching or tearing the delicate skin in and around the pussy. Wash your hands thoroughly, even if you’re planning to use a condom over your finger to penetrate your partner. (Yes, you can do that if it makes you more comfortable.) You can also get the party started in the shower together, which serves as foreplay and gets you both all nice and clean for the big show. You can even give him his enema or shower shot

Techniques to try

You’ll probably need to try a few different moves and experiment with speed and pressure to find what feels best. Here are some techniques to try, whether you’re using fingers or toys.

With your fingers

• Come hither. Gently insert your lubed index finger into the pussy and curl your finger upward in a “come hither” motion toward the belly button. Keep repeating the motion while gradually increasing your speed as the pleasure builds.
• Doorbell. Rest the pad of your finger against the outside of the princess spot and gently press as you would to ring a doorbell. Mix it up by using different pressure or holding the press for shorter and longer intervals to find what works. You can use the doorbell technique when penetrating the pussy, too.
• Circling. Use the pad of your finger and run it all around the princess spot, circling your way around the entire perimeter of the gland. Change up the pressure and speed and continue with the combo that feels best, allowing the pleasure to build up.
• Simulated vibration. Any move that feels good can be sped up to the point of feeling like a vibrator. This can be a little hard on the wrist after a while, so it’s best to save this kind of speed for when orgasm is close.

With a massager, strap-on, or other sex toy

If you’re playing with sex toys, you can really mix it up by playing with the different vibration settings, as well as pressure and depth as well as number of inches the toy is long as well as play with girth of the dildo. Some like girth over depth and vice a versa; while others like both girth and depth.

• Pressure. Controlling pressure when using a toy is easier, especially when you’re playing solo. Try pressing the toy against the princess spot using more or less pressure till you find your sweet spot.
• Depth. Depth is another area where toys win out since reaching can make it hard to go deep, if that’s what you crave. Try different sized pussy toys or get a longer one that you can insert as deep as your cunt desires.
• Vibrations. You can buy princess spot massagers that offer up multiple speed and pulse settings. Play with the different settings to find your preference. Up the vibes as you get closer to orgasm.
• Sensation. Some princess spot massagers have an attached external stimulator to give your taint some sweet loving while the other wrecks your pussy. Who doesn’t love a hard worker?

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Positions to try

Different positions can make reaching and pleasuring the princess spot easier. These positions work for external and internal prostate stimulation, alone and with a partner and for HIM fucking you stupid.

Face down

To do this by yourself:

1. Lie face down.
2. Reach your arm behind you and rest it on your back.
3. Reach your taint or pussy with your finger or ur favorite dildo.

To do this with a partner:

1. Lie face down with your arms at your sides and legs slightly apart.
2. Have them sit next to you on the side most comfortable for them.
3. Have them gently massage your princess spot.

Legs up

To do this by yourself:

1. Lie on your back.
2. Pull your knees up towards your chest as close as you can comfortably.
3. Use one arm to hold your legs in place.
4. Use your other hand to reach your pussy.

To do this with a partner:

1. Lie on your back.
2. Pull your knees up towards your chest, holding them in place with both hands.
3. Have them kneel in front of you and massage your princess spot internally, externally, or both simultaneously.

On your side, one leg to chest

1. Lie on your side.
2. Bring your outer leg up towards your chest.
3. Reach your hand around to your pussy.

To do this with a partner:

1. Lie on your side.
2. Bring your outer leg towards your chest.
3. Have them sit behind you to reach your pussy.

Doggy

To do this by yourself:

1. Get down on all fours. pussy up in the air and arch your back. Everybody says arch your back and it's because when you do your pussy opens up, relaxes and you can take it easier, and deeper or more girth as well
2. Reach your arm between your legs or around your back to reach your pussy.

To do this with a partner:

1. Get down on all fours.
2. Have them kneel behind you to reach your pussy.

What about “milking”?

Milking the princess spot refers to the act of massaging the prostate until fluid comes out either dribbling or a completely hands free ejaculation The fluid, which is milky, hence the term, comes out while you’re stimulating the princess spot. Got milk? Then keep at whatever it is you’re doing because it’s a sign that you’re getting close. The term princess spot milking is also sometimes used to refer to a therapeutic princess spot massage used to manage symptoms of princess spot problems.

Is a prostate massage the same thing as trying for a pussygasm? 

Yes. If you massage the princess spot in a way that feels good, you’re probably going to have an pussygasm if you keep at it. Some doctors recommend princess spot massage therapy to help relieve the symptoms of certain conditions, such as painful ejaculation prostatitis. Wait, so there are actual health benefits on top of orgasming? Yep! Though evidence on the efficacy of princess spot massage for certain conditions is somewhat limited, it does appear to have some benefits.

It may help improve erectile dysfunction (ED)

Though not as common as it once was, princess spot stimulation is still sometimes used to treat ED. It can be used on its own or alongside other ED treatments, including medication and pumps. HOWEVER, with that said most pussyboy's don't worry about this because it's all about our pussy's and not our clitty's. It's also why we cage, to solely focus on pussy. Caging can also if done enough and short enough cause decrease in not only size but in number of erections a GIGANTIC bonus for many pussyboys as many feel Daddy/tops don't even want to see our clittys let alone touch them.

It may help improve urine flow

Prostate swelling can put pressure on the urethra and interfere with urine flow. A princess massage can help relieve some of the swelling to allow better urine flow. I've notice the more I bash my princess spot the more I pee, and the more I pee I've noticed when fucking myself with a dildo I dribble/leak more too. Chastity for some people also causes an increase in dribbling.

It may help prevent or even treat prostatitis

Massage used to be the primary treatment for prostatitis, which is a painful inflammation of the princess spot. Antibiotics have since taken its place, though some people may still use it to relieve symptoms.

The bottom line

Pussy play may not be everyone’s bag, but if you’re willing to give it a try, an intense full-body orgasm may be the payoff. Consent and safety are key, so once you’ve got that settled you can get down to the fun part — experimenting with fingers, toys, and anything else that tickles your pussy. Now go be a good boi/girl and go play in your pussy. Daddy said so!