2 stories and memes

 

You told me you didn't have a pussy. You didn't know what I meant when I said I would cunt you, but you still begged me to fuck you stupid. Now do you understand, boy? Now when you look down at your pussy do you see it? Do you see the devastation my fat cock did to your pussy? Do you see the cunt you now have? Do you see that now you have a pussy? Well?

“You ever been fucked before?” he asked, as he thrust his massive cock into your pussy.

“N-no, I-I’m straight.”

“No, you’re a natural. I've never seen a pussy open up so quickly and fully in an effort to please the men using it.” He plunged into me, balls-deep, sending a spurt of precum gushing from my dicklet, onto the sheets under me and making me moan. “Your pussy is getting all loose, and wet, so fast. It’s like it wants me to cum in there.”

“Not a pussy!” I protested, fully aware that my struggles were just making it feel better for him.

"It may not have been a pussy when you woke up this morning, but it is definitely a pussy now. My friends and I have cunted you fully and permanently. Your untouched ass has been transformed into a gaping, cum filled, fully functioning pussy, made to serve men's cocks."

"I don't want to have a pussy,"

"It doesn't matter what you want, you have one now.  Your life has now changed forever. You exist, now, to serve men as their pussy. Now, at this point, you may be concerned that this was a one time deal. That we just used you to get off and will toss you aside now that our balls have been fully drained, but don't worry.  We would never give you this much pleasure then take it away from you. You now have a open, willing pussy, ready and able to pleasure their cocks. That way you don't have to worry about your new pussy closing up or going to waste."

"Why"

"To give your life purpose and meaning and to give us a place to dump our loads.

Opening Up: Meme's

Just a reminder, that unless I say memes where found, they are content I created with images from online. Today's theme is "opening/stretching that pussy" as Daddy and MEN love a good loose pussy no matter what they say. Loose pussy can really be rutted, and fucked stupid and Daddies and MEN love that! Besides, I've always said... "the looser the pussy the better" especially if it mine <lol>. If there is a certain theme in new memes or memes I may have. I'd really love to hear from all of you. Your thoughts. Your comments. If you'd like to submit your own pictures to become memes you can do so, and you can choose if you want tagged or mentioned in the posts here.....

this top one was created after my first suspension and I began really censoring myself

 

Superiority?

 So, I posted this on Twitter awhile back, something I found on the Internet that I felt fit what I Tweet about, which is being pussyboy, which in my mind--- at least-- is a step differnt than just sub. That, at least for me, I see myself more than just a sub. Maybe, a bit deeper into the mindset-- if you will, but the same ideas just off kilter a bit. I't hard to explain as I'm still trying to process what I truly want to say about MY being pussy, which has changed my first post here on the topic.

Anyway, I got a reply back:

I don't mean to be disrespectful. But I've spent my entire life with that inferiority issue, due largely in part to being overweight and "average." I refuse to be humiliated and shamed just because I don't look like a mainstream porn star. Yet likely perform better than some. I guess this is why I make a lousy sub. I love servicing men, and I take great joy in doing it. I am known for putting the needs/desires of others first. But I am not inferior. As a matter of fact, a skilled "inferior" can have a great deal of control over the "superior" one.

Ok, this is just MY TAKE on this issue. Superiority in my thinking is he has achieved something I never will... MACHISMO! A strong masculine pride. I'm far from masculine. I've been accused of, in the past, of being far too sissified for my own good. Uh, yup. Bingo, you win a prize; and you know something I'm damn proud of it too. I'm gay! I love sex with men! I take it up the ass as much as I can get it. I rarely ever top; I can actually count the times. I view my "hole" as pussy. I call it that, and I enjoy... believe it or not... being emasculated because I've never fully seen myself as a man. I certainly don't see myself as a woman either, I'm unique. Third gender if you will, as Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld wrote and spoke about in the 1890's to 1930's. A male, with a feminine soul.

I wasn't meant to top other men. I knew this very early on, like at fifteen or so; But I knew very early on I was different. The word gay came into my life at thirteen when the bullying started, but it also made everything click. Oh that is what this is. I'm also the type that makes a great housewife. Actually the military came in with one of those tests of what you can do based on a myriad of things and I was told I could be a housewife, or a secretary if I APPLIED myself to do that <lol>. I'm also the type to blur gender lines; like wearing high heeled shoes wearing a man's suit or wear makeup as a man. But I've always been like that. It doesn't make me less just different. Different is good for if we were all the same life would be boring as fuck!

But, societal norms say that does NOT qualify as "manly" before. My response is fuck that! Why do I have to fit YOUR norms? I don't. Not now. Not ever. I'm happy being male, happy being a sissy, happy being a #girlboy, happy being seen as effeminate. I'm truly me and aren't we all suppose to be that way? Our own true selves.

Now on to another issue.... I'm 54 fucking years old! In gay life that's like 350 years old. I've always been average. Always. And as I age, it's still true. But what percentile of our population fit that stereotype? I think it few and far between, with average guys making up the bulk; but we are forced feed this societal norm of male beauty, masculinity, youth, ruggedness and other bullshit that we for MANY reasons buy into it. In all of my years of having sex with men, the vast majority are just average... like me. I've had a few real "head turners" in my day but they are very few; and the older I get the less it happens. Old in gay life seems to represent undesirable but yet last year when I did research into aging and being gay 60% of our LGBTQIA+ population is OVER 50 years old! Where is that representation? Where is that gay porn? Where are those models and images--- you get the idea. No where because aging for society is undesirable as well. Honey we all, for the most part do it. As my Gram used to say it beats the alternative!

I'm going to be brutally honest here. I've suffered from body dysmorphia my entire life when it comes to my weight, and no matter what I weigh it is 3000% worse than reality! From being anorexic at 105 pounds--- I stand 5ft. 10 in. by the way--- to obese at 280 pounds. So I get the issue big time. In the last year and a half I went from 280 to 180. I look amazing! I feel better too. But I worked my butt off. But, if I get back up there I know now I'm comfortable with my self image--- finally--- no matter what I weigh. Health is a different issue for me, anyways but that's another post <lol>.

I think, at least for some of us, that are subs we might long to be the things we are not; but true happiness comes in knowing who you are, what you are and what you want. Accepting it, embracing it, and finally celebrating it!

I think our journey's in life are uniquely our own. Our struggles, trials, triumphs, tragedy's, successes, failures or whatever are also uniquely our own as we individually handle these issues differently. The paths we choose are different. The results are different. It's all different. But, I also think we can all learn from each other if we just listen.

Superiority and inferiority is a societal pressure. Somebody, always has to be better at something, or so it seems. But I'm not one that advocates shaming, belittling, bullying others EVER! Differences just make us different nothing more.

Does it matter if the bottom cums?

Does it matter if the bottom cums?

Once again I'm compelled to answer something I saw on Twitter in the form of a poll. I feel as if there is something to say. There are a few answers to this question in my opinion.

First, from a truly submissive point of view, and as a bottom, the first answer to this is, ONLY if the tops would want us to. I know that seems a bit vague first reading it, but from a truly submissive point of view, and desiring to totally please our tops with our boypussy or mouth alone, it is our goal is to please them and not ourselves. So if the top wishes us to ejaculate then, and only then, will we take the initiative to do so. For some of us that may mean we want him to do it for us, and for others it would mean asking if we could do it ourselves.

Next, some of us may do so hands free. Yes, it's possible. Some of us dribble it, while others actually shoot a totally hands free load, and some of us may do it while being completely limp. Some of us maybe hard the entire time, others will not get hard at all and either in my opinion is ok. It's a state of mind in my thinking. I'm normally the later, being limp the entire time.

Which brings me to my next point on this topic? I don't get hard because, for me, my entire thought process and being is wrapped up in my using my boypussy to everything it needs to do to bring my top to climax, and hopefully in me. As in a previous post I talked about how I feel it is my job as the pussy to do that every time and the effects and affects it has on me when it doesn't happen. It's not that I'm not enjoying the sex, for I am----but because my boypussy is my primary sex organ not my dick. My dick is an after thought. The affects of that actually causes me and my boypussy to get wet. Yes it does that.

For some tops, I'm going to assume two things: the first they love a limp bottom because they realize that bottom is putting everything he has--- mind, body, soul, spirit and energy--- into his pussy. The flip side of that is the tops that hate it, and think they aren't doing their job right. Honey, you are doing job; your fucking our boypussy but good, we hope, and we all respond differently it is not you trust me on this. Do your job, while we do ours.

Ok, medically speaking: Here's some important information to consider

Despite what you may have heard, edging — deliberately delaying your orgasm — isn’t harmful. This technique is also known as orgasm control. Although it’s more common among people who have a penis, anyone can benefit from it. People who practice edging bring themselves to the brink, or edge, of climax, then back off for several seconds or minutes. You can choose to climax at this point, or you may back off yet again. The number of times you stop an ejaculation is up to you.

The goal is to maintain masturbation or partner sex for a longer period of time. You may also choose to delay your orgasm until your partner is ready to climax. Edging is just one way to make masturbation or partner sex last longer. While not true for everyone, people who have a penis often reach climax more easily than people who don't. In some cases, climax may occur within a few minutes of penetration. For male to male this includes oral and anal. Edging is a way to naturally extend sexual activity. Edging can allow you to exert more control over your own orgasm. This may allow you to prolong solo or partner play, help prevent premature ejaculation, and more. 

However, men who ejaculate often may have a lower risk of prostate cancer than their peers who don’t do it as frequently, a U.S. study suggests. Researchers followed about 32,000 men starting in 1992 when they were in their 20s and continuing through 2010. During this period, almost 4,000 of the men were diagnosed with prostate cancer. Men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month in their 20s were 19 percent less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer than men who ejaculated no more than seven times a month, the study found. Men who ejaculated more often in their 40s were 22 percent less likely to get a prostate cancer diagnosis.

“Ejaculation frequency is, to some extent, a measure of overall health status in that men at the very low end of ejaculation – 0 to 3 times per month – were more likely to have other (medical problems) and die prematurely from causes other than prostate cancer,” said lead study author Jennifer Rider, who did the analysis while working at the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health in Boston. 

Rider went on to say, “While our findings should be confirmed in studies that evaluate the potential biological mechanisms underlying the observed associations, the results of our study suggest that ejaculation and safe sexual activity throughout adulthood could be a beneficial strategy for reducing the risk of prostate cancer." Prostate cancer accounts for 15 percent of all new cancer diagnoses worldwide, the researchers note in the journal European Urology. Established risk factors like age, race and family history are not "modifiable," they add, and there are few lifestyle changes that can be recommended to men to lower risk.

The association between ejaculation frequency and cancer is also strongest for men without symptoms of prostate tumors such as pain or urinary difficulties that are already at low-risk for these malignancies, said Dr. Behfar Ehdaie, a urology specialist at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York who wasn’t involved in the study.

“If ejaculation frequency was truly a causal factor for prostate cancer development, we would expect to find the association across all prostate cancer risk categories,” Ehdaie said by email. It’s also too soon to weigh the merits of sex as a tool for cancer prevention, said Siobhan Sutcliffe, a cancer researcher at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis.

Frequent ejaculation through sex or masturbation probably results from other factors that contribute to good health, such as a healthy diet and normal weight, which might also lower the risk of cancer, said Dr. John Gore, a urology researcher at the University of Washington in Seattle who wasn’t involved in the study. “I do not think we need to tell men `if you don’t use it, you lose it,’” Gore said by email. “If lower ejaculation frequency prompts a man to schedule a visit with a primary care provider or specialist, and that visit serves to examine and promote preventive care and wellness, then that would be a successful application of the results of this study.”

More Than I Bargained For?

 Question: I said I was a sub bottom, and when asked said I would obey, and then when I go over to his place there are actually 3 guys that was never mentioned, is this OK? He says when I was asked my limits I did not say anything about it, so He is right. Is it ok that I stayed?

There's a few things here that I think need addressed.

First, you're under the assumption that the guy you are into, that it is just going to be him, not him and three unknown others. It could be construed a bit missing leading to some, while others would take it as very misleading. Some may have even fled in horror. However, with that said, many may have found the other three guys as a "perk", if you will, especially if they were versatile and willing to top you, if that is what you wanted. I would also add here, does he assume that you'll be submissive to the others as well, and you need to know this up front. That for many by itself is a deal breaker, as you hadn't planned on "pleasing" four men. However, then again, for some it is a big bonus.

Next, I think the key for me would have been if I was attracted to the "extra guys", or if I was feeling especially a whore out for a great time. But then too I may not have even thought about too much about the other guys, and what drew me in the first place the "daddy" I was going to serve. Since, I'm the whore type I would have see the whole thing as a huge turn especially if I left with added loads in me. For me though, and it is a bit "challenging" to say this, so bear with me, but as awful as this may sound it isn't so much about the guy or the guys I end up with but the outcome of the connection---meaning my getting fucked and bred, end of story. There have been times especially in a sex club setting I never see their face, but then again without my glasses on my distance vision is not the greatest. For me it's more about serving them to get my needs met, and I'll do what I need to, to make that happen. Have I turned guys away, yeah I have.... and maybe that's a different topic entirely.

Obeying four guys can be challenging, especially if they are competitive in nature. How do you split the time between them? All at once, one at a time, in pairs; there are so many options to this and all of them with unique and different outcomes and varying degrees of pleasure for everyone involved. However, before my clothes came off I'd be very clear what my limits are, what my safe word is and if those are crossed that I'm out of here.

My big thing here is he should have mentioned three others, even if briefly, to see if it's something you were into. However, that in and of itself, especially if you're the shy type may have scared you away. It would have made the beginning a bit smoother, if you will; you a bit more prepared as well. Hopefully, somehow, everyone either verbally or through body language and or actions got what they wanted as well. Here you are though at his house, making the trip, walking through his door, knowing your going to get fucked, and bingo----- three more guys. Lord knows how this turned out, and I'm truly hoping to your best advantage. But being the whore I am I would have seen the whole thing as a mini orgy, and me hopefully the only pussyboy.

You chose to stay, you had your reasons, your motives, and your goals for that period of time and whatever the outcome--- even if that meant more than four loads up your boypussy, you shouldn't feel ashamed, embarrassed, or taken advantage of. Hopefully the heat of the moment is what drove the affair, hopefully you got what you wanted or needed as well as them. You followed your "gut", if you will; or maybe you listened to the still small voice of your pussy..... I know I would have.

10 TIPS FOR Pussyboys WHO WANT TO KEEP A TOP

1. MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO TAKE COCK

Never be shy about being fucked. Very few men died from taking dick. You won’t either. Get fucked as often as you want, by as many as you want, and when you want. It's why you're a pussyboy to begin with.

2. Allow the TOP TO HAVE HIS WAY 

Some times we pussyboys want to be in control. We want to ride the dick, we want it doggy style or on our backs. Allow the top to be the top. We need to think that tops DO know best in what gets THEM off. It's about them and NOT us! We need to fully understand that we must remain passive. That doesn't mean just laying there taking it, we must fully respond to the tops actions, and respond in a way that compliments that actions and heightens it. Nobody likes fucking a dead fish, just saying.

3. Don’t TOUCH THE TOP

Many times pussyboys feel we need to touch the top and carry on while being fucked. The next time you take some dick, close your eyes, go within yourself and enjoy the sex. Enjoy the sensation of him in you. This is truly your time to be enjoying being a pussy. It is why we get fucked in the first place.

4. DOUCHE WELL

Be a great pussyboy, be clean. Nobody like a dirty pussy.

5. Learn how to arch your back

This should be your 101 in having gay sex. Practice to arch your back. It’s the only way tops want your pussy. Besides it makes taking dick up your pussy easier. He can also fuck you deeper and harder as well.....hello!

6. STOP GRIPPING YOUR PUSSY

Sex experts have always said to grip your boypussy, the boypussy should always be tight. Instead, relax your boypussy. Try it. You’ll see the top transformed, as well as yourself.

7. TRY UNCONVENTIONAL POSITIONS  

Now, I am not asking you to climb on the balcony to make the sex amazing. How many pussyboys fuck on their sides? Not many. Most times, tops push for this position. This is an easy position for the boypussy to handle the dick. Trust me on this.

8. KNOW HOW TO MOAN 

There is a huge difference in moaning and wanting your neighbor to report you for disturbing the peace. Moaning should sound pleasurable and not whiny or painful even if it maybe, it should drive your top to pound your pussy even harder, deeper and even to breed you. You could throw into this topic, talk dirty. Lot of tops get off by us telling then how great the dicking and their dicks are.

9. BE HUNGRY FOR THE DICK

I am deadly serious here. If you want to take bigger dicks, you must master the average dick you are getting now. If that means "training" your pussy with dildos to take bigger dicks do it. Breathe while getting dicked down, deeply if need be it will relax you. Also go at your own pace, it won't happen overnight.

10. BE A FUCKBOY

Tops want to know they have a pussyboy who can handle the dick and give him great sex.  Sounds simple enough but this takes work on your part, and on your pussy's part too. A good mental state helps too, an understanding of your body and it needs help as well. A clear understanding that the only true pleasure, for many of myself included here, is when we are boypussy up getting fucked stupid!

Words to live by

Tips for Pussyboys & The Men Who Love Us

I was asked recently for tips on being a pussyboy on Twitter, as I myself classify myself as such.  For me, a pussyboy is a term that describes a boy who has let go of his desires in order to satisfy others and please those who wish to be dominant towards the pussyboy. This is especially true for me, as when it comes to dominate men I never have any desire to be satisfied, as my pleasure source is knowing that I am making the man happy. 

1. A true pussyboy is ALWAYS "in service". This is especially if at this very moment you are not offering up your mind, body, soul, time or even your pussy; if you are truly a pussyboy you are continually aware of your role and the importance that role plays. It is something that never goes away. With this you easily add being "always prepared"for service. A cleaned out (enema) pussy, freshly shaved or waxed, showered, smelling good and in the mind set that when the opportunity to serve comes you do, willingly. You are of the mindset, like myself, that if you are not serving your not fully living, even if it's just a one time "pump and dump" experience. For many of us service is offering or giving up our pussies, period. In my thinking the term pussy, for me, equates I want fucked, I need fucked, I enjoy getting fucked, it's a term of endearment that clearly, without doubt says what I enjoy. Puss can mean our entire ass to just our "anal" opening, however some of us use the word cunt for our actual "opening". Whatever works best for you: even twat gash, bussy, and even mussy.

a. Personally, being on my knees sucking cock or getting fucked feels natural, it is my first instinct. My desire to submit is very innate. It has and always be there no matter what, for without it I don't feel complete or fulfilled. This is not as some expect as inferiority but as my true power and calling, it is was I am to do. There is huge fulfillment in service. There is more to service besides sex but, I'll save that fir another post.

b. Being a pussyboy or even a faggot is not a bad thing. We are born this way, so there is no point at all in ever trying to be something we are not and never will be.This will only lead to huge frustration, stress, anxiety, depression, unhappiness and other issues. Our mental health is paramount, and our personal journey to acceptance is unique and individual. Thankfully terminology is there to support our attitudes as years ago the big term was "power bottom".

 2. Male to male sex is 100% pleasure. His cock pushing into your hungry, wet, silky smooth boypussy, whether it's fast or slow or or deep is sheer bliss. Eventually when he orgasms in you (breeds you) it is beyond amazing as many, if not all of us live for this very moment and if it doesn't happen are left feeling incomplete, inadequate, unfulfilled and even take on guilt that we didn't do everything right for him to breed us for if we had he would have.

a. It is pain and pleasure, and what a glorious mix of the two. We may grit our teeth, bite pillows, grip sheets, and at times our pussy's are so stretched to the limit again something many of us want and need is when the two themes of pain and pleasure really mix. After the initial push our pussy relaxes then the real fun begins; the pounding (or cunting as some call it). The pleasure is in being filled, of being used and the pumping our pussies receive is insanely wonderful. It is why we do what we do after all.

b. A lot of us love missionary, and being fucked by "Daddy" with him watching our pleasure as we are being pussy-fucked, feeling him drive in and out of us, on top of us, in full and utter control all the while being totally submissive in action to his desire this is what makes us pussyboys. It is what we strive for.

3. As pussyboys we need discouraged and need to discourage ourselves from using our cocks for anything other than urination, period. Every time we "jerk off" we are experiencing pleasure as a top, and we are NOT tops. We are also by "jerking off" neglecting our TRUE sex organ, our pussy. Our pussy is a wonderfully glorious place that many of us figured out in our own journey in becoming bottoms in the first place. We should be fingering ourselves, using dildos, vibrators or other "pussy toys" and as often as we can. I call the use of those things and the action as "pussy-turbating". Simply, masturbating our pussy. Many of us once we fully accept ourselves also accept our "hunger" and needs when it comes to having our pussies used.

a. Tops should strongly discourage their pussyboys from jerking off. Push his hands away if he is caught doing so, scold him, and some go as far as an over the knee bare pussy spanking. When tops fuck us they need to make sure our attention is on our pussy and nothing else. Fuck us in positions that are difficult or impossible for us to jerk off. Fuck us in jockstraps so our cocks are hidden out of the way. Or put us in cock cages/chastity.

b. Make us feel naughty if we do, or are caught masturbating and even just touching ourselves. Tops need to act disappointed if we are caught "jerking off". Chastity or other punishments can apply here. But also keep in my mind he does need to ejaculate time to time, as not doing so can lead to health issues, so tops milking the pussyboy, or even masturbating him, or hands free ejaculations brought on by prostate stimulation is strongly encouraged.

c. Make us feel good about our pussies. Many of us are very self-conscious and even worried about what our tops/Daddy think of us and our pussy. Many of us also want our tops/Daddies to love our pussies a bit more than us the actual person.Tell us how beautiful and delicious our pussy is, let us know you love it and as often as you can. This will build our character and confidence in ourselves, and our pussy and will boost our level of comfort in showing it off and using it very much to your benefit. If praised enough you may even get us to bare our pussies in public!  This kind of behavior which glorifies our pussy puts it at the very forefront of our whole identity and sexual pleasure. This is something many of us desperately want and need. We seek desirability and a positive outlook about our pussies.

4. Our true pleasure comes through our pussies! If you as the top want a pussyboy, and for us to truly love being one, then make sure we are fully satisfied through our pussy so we forget about our dicks completely. Grab our pussy cheeks and tease/play with them, rub our "cunt" when kissing us, play with it through all foreplay. Talk naughty about our pussy,  have us show it off for you and celebrate it.

a. Men EAT boypussy! If you truly, deeply, genuinely love boypussy you eat it, suck it, lick it, nibble it, bite it, chew it, gnaw it and make him moan like a whore in church. Devour his pussy! Grind your stubble into it! Spank him as you eat him out. Eat him out like it's your last damn meal.

b. When fucking us try giving us an anal orgasm, or as I like calling them "pussygasms". Drive us crazy through your fuck actions. If we have a pussygasm kiss us, congratulate us and make us feel like incredible pussyboys. Giving us this pleasure is our reward for ignoring our dicks, and focusing only on our pussy.

Solely for us, as pussyboys:

1. Always focus on the tops dick and his satisfaction not yours.

2. Always show your respect to your top through word and deed.

3. Always obey.

4. Always take care of yourself: skin, diet, exercise, pleasurable nonsexual activity.

5. Always find your place and accept it.

6. NEVER, EVER feel shame for being a pussyboy. EVER! For without us what good are tops and vice a versa.

I have other thoughts as well, butt will save them for another post

What is a pussyboy? Just curious here. REVISED

 Question from Twitter in my DM: What is a pussyboy? Just curious here.

I get this question a lot, so I thought I'd answer it here in my new format, where I can go in depth on the topic.

According to Wiktionary.org pussyboy: "is defined as a bottom gay man, usually a younger, submissive and hairless male."

However, in my opinion there is so much more than that too brief nondescript definition. A pussyboy main focus is his “pussy” or medical lingo his rectum (this will be the last time I will use that lingo).  He views his "pussy" as his main sexual organ as his true pleasure comes from being the passive partner in male on male sexual acts. He may have prostrate orgasms (my term for the is pussy-gasms), which for him are more than enough, and it is not about ejaculation, but being submissive and passive to the top he is serving.

For me, a pussyboy is a term that describes a boy/man, of any age who has let go of his personal desires in order to satisfy others, and please those who wish to be dominant towards the pussyboy. This is especially true for me, as when it comes to dominate men I never have any desire to be satisfied, as my pleasure source is knowing that I am making the man happy, and making him ejaculate, and inside of me. I think the number one rule a pussyboy should have is: Always focus on the man you are serving and his pleasure. Know that your satisfaction does not matter.

To me there is nothing more pleasing than knowing that I have successfully brought happiness to a man through sexual intimacy. By my going pussy up (the term pussy can also be used for your entire ass, not just your entrance--however some use the term. cunt, gash or twat for your "entrance") This is where I believe the line between Sub and Dom lies. The Dom gains pleasure through what the Sub does, and the Sub gains pleasure through how the Dom responds through the Subs actions. Now of course not everyone is the same.

In my thinking the perfect fuck is unequal​. One fucks, one gets fucked end of story. One offers him self up to be used, and the other gratefully uses him. Both are happy this way.  This makes sense especially to me. Imagine the hierarchy, there are fewer people at the top, no pun intended, and many more at the bottom, no pun intended. When you've accepted your role, you free yourself to be the best bottom you can, and to live true to yourself. By the way, self-acceptance is sexy as hell. 

For me, being on my knees before a man feels natural. The desire to submit is innate. It has always been there, and finally acting on it was liberating. There is nothing wrong with accepting inferiority. We are not equal and that's fine. In service there is fulfillment. 

For some bottom men being a pussyboy is not enough, but also embrace feminine things like hose/silk stockings and garters, lacey panties, high-heel shoes, or other things that are deemed fem. Each relationship is different and there are no right or wrong answers, just venues to be pursued. However, for me the cross-dressing stops there, as anything else beyond that is something entirely different: true cross dressing, or female illusionists, and even transgender. Most pussyboys are very comfortable being male, and being submissive. Others thrive being "girlie", myself included.

Some bottom men even adapt further language to embrace this idea; for example being “Daddy’s good girl”, but not everybody does this. Some even take the term of fucking and re-term the word into “cunting" or "being cunted” the act of becoming, or being an open and willing "cunt" at all times, to be fucked and even bred. Cunting though for most is the thinking that the physical act of the fuck is a life changing event, a “spiritual awakening”, if you will, to the fact they are a pussyboy and many never look back to anything prior to that "cunting".

If breeding (bareback sex) is part of your scene please have an open and honest conversation about your sexual histories before doing so, and please consider PREP if you feel you are at risk for contracting HIV/AIDS, or use condoms if you are uncomfortable with the aforementioned. Again this is not something every one does but a further fetish of the above ideas.

Of course the flip side of the fem pussyboy is the butch pussyboy. The big, buff, gym going stereotype gay boy we are all aware of. The one you look at and say, "Oh, he's a top." When in all reality you're dead wrong. He can be the leather bottom boy, the submissive. The one who appears more masculine in appearance and attitude than his counterparts but still identifies his pleasure the same way, through his “pussy”. The only clear examples of this in gay media outlets are in porn especially in fisting porn where language may support the terms pussy or cunt. However, the passive is seen as a boy, not quiet yet a “man” and some of the ideas mentioned may or may not apply, and there may or may not be slight adjustments to those ideas.

 Language and the use of language, is crucial for many in this scene, especially words that can be seen as a negative: faggot, bitch, cunt, snatch, twat, whore, slut, cumdump, sissy, girlie-boy or a combination of terms like: bitchboy. For many of us--- and especially if you know us well--- can become positive language and terms, and yes even a sexual turn on during sexual intercourse. For some within our community this is also controversial. Again not everybody does this so talk openly with your sexual partner about what is comfortable.

The whole thing boils down to that being a pussyboy is way more than a look, or more than a sexual act it is a way of thinking of being, and for many of us a way of life. It is our life, and some of us even, dare I say take this on as our gender identity in saying we are not male nor female nor even a predeterined gender--- we are simply our pussy. End of story.

I hope this helped...