Tips for Pussyboys & The Men Who Love Us

I was asked recently for tips on being a pussyboy on Twitter, as I myself classify myself as such.  For me, a pussyboy is a term that describes a boy who has let go of his desires in order to satisfy others and please those who wish to be dominant towards the pussyboy. This is especially true for me, as when it comes to dominate men I never have any desire to be satisfied, as my pleasure source is knowing that I am making the man happy. 

1. A true pussyboy is ALWAYS "in service". This is especially if at this very moment you are not offering up your mind, body, soul, time or even your pussy; if you are truly a pussyboy you are continually aware of your role and the importance that role plays. It is something that never goes away. With this you easily add being "always prepared"for service. A cleaned out (enema) pussy, freshly shaved or waxed, showered, smelling good and in the mind set that when the opportunity to serve comes you do, willingly. You are of the mindset, like myself, that if you are not serving your not fully living, even if it's just a one time "pump and dump" experience. For many of us service is offering or giving up our pussies, period. In my thinking the term pussy, for me, equates I want fucked, I need fucked, I enjoy getting fucked, it's a term of endearment that clearly, without doubt says what I enjoy. Puss can mean our entire ass to just our "anal" opening, however some of us use the word cunt for our actual "opening". Whatever works best for you: even twat gash, bussy, and even mussy.

a. Personally, being on my knees sucking cock or getting fucked feels natural, it is my first instinct. My desire to submit is very innate. It has and always be there no matter what, for without it I don't feel complete or fulfilled. This is not as some expect as inferiority but as my true power and calling, it is was I am to do. There is huge fulfillment in service. There is more to service besides sex but, I'll save that fir another post.

b. Being a pussyboy or even a faggot is not a bad thing. We are born this way, so there is no point at all in ever trying to be something we are not and never will be.This will only lead to huge frustration, stress, anxiety, depression, unhappiness and other issues. Our mental health is paramount, and our personal journey to acceptance is unique and individual. Thankfully terminology is there to support our attitudes as years ago the big term was "power bottom".

 2. Male to male sex is 100% pleasure. His cock pushing into your hungry, wet, silky smooth boypussy, whether it's fast or slow or or deep is sheer bliss. Eventually when he orgasms in you (breeds you) it is beyond amazing as many, if not all of us live for this very moment and if it doesn't happen are left feeling incomplete, inadequate, unfulfilled and even take on guilt that we didn't do everything right for him to breed us for if we had he would have.

a. It is pain and pleasure, and what a glorious mix of the two. We may grit our teeth, bite pillows, grip sheets, and at times our pussy's are so stretched to the limit again something many of us want and need is when the two themes of pain and pleasure really mix. After the initial push our pussy relaxes then the real fun begins; the pounding (or cunting as some call it). The pleasure is in being filled, of being used and the pumping our pussies receive is insanely wonderful. It is why we do what we do after all.

b. A lot of us love missionary, and being fucked by "Daddy" with him watching our pleasure as we are being pussy-fucked, feeling him drive in and out of us, on top of us, in full and utter control all the while being totally submissive in action to his desire this is what makes us pussyboys. It is what we strive for.

3. As pussyboys we need discouraged and need to discourage ourselves from using our cocks for anything other than urination, period. Every time we "jerk off" we are experiencing pleasure as a top, and we are NOT tops. We are also by "jerking off" neglecting our TRUE sex organ, our pussy. Our pussy is a wonderfully glorious place that many of us figured out in our own journey in becoming bottoms in the first place. We should be fingering ourselves, using dildos, vibrators or other "pussy toys" and as often as we can. I call the use of those things and the action as "pussy-turbating". Simply, masturbating our pussy. Many of us once we fully accept ourselves also accept our "hunger" and needs when it comes to having our pussies used.

a. Tops should strongly discourage their pussyboys from jerking off. Push his hands away if he is caught doing so, scold him, and some go as far as an over the knee bare pussy spanking. When tops fuck us they need to make sure our attention is on our pussy and nothing else. Fuck us in positions that are difficult or impossible for us to jerk off. Fuck us in jockstraps so our cocks are hidden out of the way. Or put us in cock cages/chastity.

b. Make us feel naughty if we do, or are caught masturbating and even just touching ourselves. Tops need to act disappointed if we are caught "jerking off". Chastity or other punishments can apply here. But also keep in my mind he does need to ejaculate time to time, as not doing so can lead to health issues, so tops milking the pussyboy, or even masturbating him, or hands free ejaculations brought on by prostate stimulation is strongly encouraged.

c. Make us feel good about our pussies. Many of us are very self-conscious and even worried about what our tops/Daddy think of us and our pussy. Many of us also want our tops/Daddies to love our pussies a bit more than us the actual person.Tell us how beautiful and delicious our pussy is, let us know you love it and as often as you can. This will build our character and confidence in ourselves, and our pussy and will boost our level of comfort in showing it off and using it very much to your benefit. If praised enough you may even get us to bare our pussies in public!  This kind of behavior which glorifies our pussy puts it at the very forefront of our whole identity and sexual pleasure. This is something many of us desperately want and need. We seek desirability and a positive outlook about our pussies.

4. Our true pleasure comes through our pussies! If you as the top want a pussyboy, and for us to truly love being one, then make sure we are fully satisfied through our pussy so we forget about our dicks completely. Grab our pussy cheeks and tease/play with them, rub our "cunt" when kissing us, play with it through all foreplay. Talk naughty about our pussy,  have us show it off for you and celebrate it.

a. Men EAT boypussy! If you truly, deeply, genuinely love boypussy you eat it, suck it, lick it, nibble it, bite it, chew it, gnaw it and make him moan like a whore in church. Devour his pussy! Grind your stubble into it! Spank him as you eat him out. Eat him out like it's your last damn meal.

b. When fucking us try giving us an anal orgasm, or as I like calling them "pussygasms". Drive us crazy through your fuck actions. If we have a pussygasm kiss us, congratulate us and make us feel like incredible pussyboys. Giving us this pleasure is our reward for ignoring our dicks, and focusing only on our pussy.

Solely for us, as pussyboys:

1. Always focus on the tops dick and his satisfaction not yours.

2. Always show your respect to your top through word and deed.

3. Always obey.

4. Always take care of yourself: skin, diet, exercise, pleasurable nonsexual activity.

5. Always find your place and accept it.

6. NEVER, EVER feel shame for being a pussyboy. EVER! For without us what good are tops and vice a versa.

I have other thoughts as well, butt will save them for another post