The princess spot — or P-spot, as it’s often called — is a small muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in ejaculate. It helps propel semen from the clitty. It’s also surrounded by nerve endings that can feel oh-so-good when touched just right.

Who can do it?

People assigned male at birth have them, but that doesn’t mean that other folks have to miss out on the fun. Helping someone achieve one of these orgasms is pretty awesome!

Where exactly is the princess spot?

The princess spot is located about two inches inside ur boypussy. You'll be able to feel it. If you need help ask a friend.

How do you find it?

You’ll need to head south along the back road to find it in a magical place called the inner pussy region. Although entering through the pussy is the most direct way, you can also stimulate the princess spot indirectly through the taint-- that area between pussy and ovaries. 

What does the princess spot feel like?

It depends on whether you’re feeling it from the outside or inside. Being aroused makes it swell, so the more turned on you are before you poke around, the easier it’ll be to feel.


From the outside

The taint is firmer near the front of the clitty bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft. It feels softer and fleshier toward the back. This is the area you’re aiming for. You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee. This is a sign that you’re where you want to be — trust me!

From the inside

It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the pussy lining. It’ll feel different from the other tissue in there.

Let’s me say it will take some practice and patience and lots of pussy use with your favorite dildo, fingers or from seriously getting cunted all the time. Actual clinical research on princess spot-induced orgasms is seriously lacking in the medical field, so we don’t know how common it is or if it’s possible for everyone with a princess spot to have this type of orgasm. I tend to think with practice, patience, daily pussy workouts with your favorites dildos will help. Every body is different, so some experimenting to see what feels good is in order. If you do manage to have one, reproducing it will be easy.

Now pussy orgasms are very different from ejaculations and especially hands free ejaculations caused by pussy use. I found during the height of COVID, two years ago, when I fully noticed I was having pussygasms. I was also doing daily dildo pussy workouts three times a day at three hours set aside for pussy play. I also found it easier to have multiple pussygasms when I focused on my breathing, keeping my pussy open and relaxed. I found for me poppers helped, and of course that may not be the answer for you. I also found I was producing in my pussy a liquid substance that was covering my dildos and at time would get a frothy white texture to it as well.


What does a pussygasm feel like?

Pussygasms are said to feel similar to clitty orgasms, only way more intense and felt through the entire body as they are internal and are felt deep inside of you. There are stories of people having super orgasms, which are a stream of fast, continuous orgasms that cause the body to shudder. I've had them especially when I've produced more than one in a row, and this can be achieved as well with patience, practice and pussy use. Not everyone ejaculates during a pussygasm, but some release a dribble of milky fluid from their clitty called a a ruined orgasm or ruined ejaculation. Completely hands free ejaculations are possible as well, I've done it twice in two years so again patience, practice and pussy use.

A little bit of prep can help make the experience a good one whether you’re flying solo, or on the giving or receiving end of things.

    If you’re the one being pussy:

You’ll want to be as relaxed and aroused as possible, because it’ll make the experience easier and more enjoyable. The whole poop-comes-out-of-the-butt thing gives some people a case of the heebie-jeebies even when it’s their own butt. Remedy this by taking a shower and paying a little extra attention back there to get it squeaky clean. Some people like to use an enema or shower shot before engaging in pussy play.  Most people don't like playing in poo. Use the bathroom before getting started. Princess spot stimulation can make you feel like you need to pee, and  penetration can cause the sensation of needing to pee. Even though you won’t, worrying that you might can interfere with your ability to let go and enjoy yourself. Knowing your bladder and bowels are empty can help. Getting used to the sensation of having your princess spot touched can help, too, especially if your a virgin to any kind of any pussy play. Practice with an sex toy, like a butt plug, or your fingers. Be sure to set the mood so that you’re turned on and primed for action. Light candles, watch porn, or engage in some good old-fashioned foreplay to get there. Finally, be sure to lube up REALLY good. Applying a water-based lubricant will allow for easier penetration and make for some easy gliding if stimulating your prostate externally, although others swear by Vaseline as you stay stickier longer.

If you’re the giving partner

Cleanliness and safety are a must, even for the giver. Cut and file your nails VERY smooth to help avoid scratching or tearing the delicate skin in and around the pussy. Wash your hands thoroughly, even if you’re planning to use a condom over your finger to penetrate your partner. (Yes, you can do that if it makes you more comfortable.) You can also get the party started in the shower together, which serves as foreplay and gets you both all nice and clean for the big show. You can even give him his enema or shower shot


Techniques to try

You’ll probably need to try a few different moves and experiment with speed and pressure to find what feels best. Here are some techniques to try, whether you’re using fingers or toys.

With your fingers

  • Come hither. Gently insert your lubed index finger into the pussy and curl your finger upward in a “come hither” motion toward the belly button. Keep repeating the motion while gradually increasing your speed as the pleasure builds.
  • Doorbell. Rest the pad of your finger against the outside of the princess spot and gently press as you would to ring a doorbell. Mix it up by using different pressure or holding the press for shorter and longer intervals to find what works. You can use the doorbell technique when penetrating the pussy, too.
  • Circling. Use the pad of your finger and run it all around the princess spot, circling your way around the entire perimeter of the gland. Change up the pressure and speed and continue with the combo that feels best, allowing the pleasure to build up.
  • Simulated vibration. Any move that feels good can be sped up to the point of feeling like a vibrator. This can be a little hard on the wrist after a while, so it’s best to save this kind of speed for when orgasm is close.


With a massager, strap-on, or other sex toy

If you’re playing with sex toys, you can really mix it up by playing with the different vibration settings, as well as pressure and depth as well as number of inches the toy is long as well as play with girth of the dildo. Some like girth over depth and vice a versa; while others like both girth and depth.

  • Pressure. Controlling pressure when using a toy is easier, especially when you’re playing solo. Try pressing the toy against the princess spot using more or less pressure till you find your sweet spot.
  • Depth. Depth is another area where toys win out since reaching can make it hard to go deep, if that’s what you crave. Try different sized pussy toys or get a longer one that you can insert as deep as your cunt desires.
  • Vibrations. You can buy princess spot massagers that offer up multiple speed and pulse settings. Play with the different settings to find your preference. Up the vibes as you get closer to orgasm.
  • Sensation. Some princess spot massagers have an attached external stimulator to give your taint some sweet loving while the other wrecks your pussy. Who doesn’t love a hard worker?
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Positions to try

Different positions can make reaching and pleasuring the princess spot easier. These positions work for external and internal prostate stimulation, alone and with a partner and for HIM fucking you stupid.

Face down

To do this by yourself:

  1. Lie face down.
  2. Reach your arm behind you and rest it on your back.
  3. Reach your taint or pussy with your finger or ur favorite dildo.

To do this with a partner:

  1. Lie face down with your arms at your sides and legs slightly apart.
  2. Have them sit next to you on the side most comfortable for them.
  3. Have them gently massage your princess spot.

Legs up

To do this by yourself:

  1. Lie on your back.
  2. Pull your knees up towards your chest as close as you can comfortably.
  3. Use one arm to hold your legs in place.
  4. Use your other hand to reach your pussy.

To do this with a partner:

  1. Lie on your back.
  2. Pull your knees up towards your chest, holding them in place with both hands.
  3. Have them kneel in front of you and massage your princess spot internally, externally, or both simultaneously.


On your side, one leg to chest

  1. Lie on your side.
  2. Bring your outer leg up towards your chest.
  3. Reach your hand around to your pussy.

To do this with a partner:

  1. Lie on your side.
  2. Bring your outer leg towards your chest.
  3. Have them sit behind you to reach your pussy.

Doggy

To do this by yourself:

  1. Get down on all fours. pussy up in the air and arch your back. Everybody says arch your back and it's because when you do your pussy opens up, relaxes and you can take it easier, and deeper or more girth as well
  2. Reach your arm between your legs or around your back to reach your pussy.

To do this with a partner:

  1. Get down on all fours.
  2. Have them kneel behind you to reach your pussy.

Milking the princess spot refers to the act of massaging the prostate until fluid comes out either dribbling or a completely hands free ejaculation The fluid, which is milky, hence the term, comes out while you’re stimulating the princess spot. Got milk? Then keep at whatever it is you’re doing because it’s a sign that you’re getting close. The term princess spot milking is also sometimes used to refer to a therapeutic princess spot massage used to manage symptoms of princess spot problems.


Is a prostate massage the same thing as trying for a pussygasm? 
Yes. If you massage the princess spot in a way that feels good, you’re probably going to have an pussygasm if you keep at it. Some doctors recommend princess spot massage therapy to help relieve the symptoms of certain conditions, such as painful ejaculation prostatitis. Wait, so there are actual health benefits on top of orgasming? Yep! Though evidence on the efficacy of princess spot massage for certain conditions is somewhat limited, it does appear to have some benefits.

It may help improve erectile dysfunction (ED)

Though not as common as it once was, princess spot stimulation is still sometimes used to treat ED. It can be used on its own or alongside other ED treatments, including medication and pumps. HOWEVER, with that said most pussyboy's don't worry about this because it's all about our pussy's and not our clitty's. It's also why we cage, to solely focus on pussy. Caging can also if done enough and short enough cause decrease in not only size but in number of erections a GIGANTIC bonus for many pussyboys as many feel Daddy/tops don't even want to see our clittys let alone touch them.


It may help improve urine flow

Prostate swelling can put pressure on the urethra and interfere with urine flow. A princess massage can help relieve some of the swelling to allow better urine flow. I've notice the more I bash my princess spot the more I pee, and the more I pee I've noticed when fucking myself with a dildo I dribble/leak more too. Chastity for some people also causes an increase in dribbling.

It may help prevent or even treat prostatitis

Massage used to be the primary treatment for prostatitis, which is a painful inflammation of the princess spot. Antibiotics have since taken its place, though some people may still use it to relieve symptoms.

The bottom line

Pussy play may not be everyone’s bag, but if you’re willing to give it a try, an intense full-body orgasm may be the payoff. Consent and safety are key, so once you’ve got that settled you can get down to the fun part — experimenting with fingers, toys, and anything else that tickles your pussy. Now go be a good boi/girl and go play in your pussy. Daddy said so!