So I came across Scoty's Twitter a lil while back, and if I remember right it was a brief clip from a porn clip I was intrigued to say the least and instantly thought of doing an interview for the blog. What follows here is that conversation about being Nullo and I truly hope you enjoy learning as much as I did. You can find Scoty's Only Fans here at justfor.fans/ffmehrd or with Treasure Island Media.
Scoty: Scoty is fine.
PB: When did you first realize that you were wanting to be nullo, or did it start some other way? Could/would you describe that journey?
Scoty: Even as early as 8-9 years old. I realized something was off about my body. Somehow having male genitalia was wrong and a mistake. The feeling stuck with me all my life.
PB: Not to be intrusive here, but was there possibly thoughts about being the wrong gender or just something didn't belong? I don't want to say one one thing goes hand in hand with the other; but I'm naive about Nullo feelings versus trans feelings and I certainly don't want to offend.
Scoty: Oh no, I knew I was a boy. Nothing made me think I was meant to be female.
PB: See I was thinking that, but wasn't sure. It was like coming out as non-binary a few months back, and everybody was like well duh, hello you are. But for me it was a big deal, as I was always the sissy boy growing up, knowing my "asshole" was going to be my main sex organ. It wasn't until a little over two years ago I even had heard the word pussyboy and I was like, yup, that's me and all the research into the term and third gender studies Hirschfeld did so long ago. I knew I leaned effeminate but I certainly wasn't meant to be female either.
Scoty: I would tuck even as a child, and when I looked at myself in a mirror I knew not having anything was what I was meant to look like. Of course at the time I didn't know what any of it meant or that it even had a name. I can completely relate to that.
PB: See I did the tucking thing too growing up as well, and not being turned off by the thought of that , now looking back at it at least for now, at least for me, it is what led to chastity cages. I sure there is a range of feelings, responses, attitudes as some who is Nullo. Is there such a thing as nullo pussyboys? Or is that two very separate things?
Scoty: Yeah I hated caging. Seeing the balls still dangling and exposed... gave me such anxiety and stress. Every time I attempted to cage it, it just made things more evident that I wasn't meant to have any of it. Oh I'm def sure that there are Nullo pussyboys... why wouldn't there be?
PB: I wasn't so sure. I mean there is all this talk about our "clitty" being limp, useless, not needed and that our pussies are our only sex organ. I just didn't want to blur two separate things. Like when people assume all bottoms are pussyboys, and they are not. I didn't want to do the same thing with a group I know so little about. As some gay men find the whole "pussyboy phenomenon" a huge turn off, and that we as such play into this whole other turn off for them, which is "effeminacy". Well my attitude has always been you can't be a top without a bottom... hello.. or a bottom without a top. So I'm sure there is commentary about Nullo's that's horrifying to say the least.
Scoty: Well, yes true. Not all Nullos are pussyboys.
There hasn't been many guys that have vocalized their dislike about my journey to becoming Nullo. But the few that expressed their opinions have been quite surprising. One guy for instance, a total top, every time we played he wanted me blind folded and my junk covered, he wanted to focus on my hole. When I told him, we discussed it and he was completely turned off; and I told him he would never see me again. Totally his loss.
PB: It is totally his loss. I 'm curious if part of what you did was this idea that your hole is your true sex organ, or if becoming Nullo was more about your genitals not belonging on you... or if it was a mix of both?
Scoty: Well at such a young age... and the feeling never changed as I got older that the genitals never belonged. It never felt right. Of course for years I've thought and referred to my hole as a sex organ.
PB: I've thought of my hole as a sex organ too, and when I finally realized there was a word "pussyboi" it all clicked for me. But I'm wondering is that feeling intensified after being Nullo, because then it only about your hole or am I wrong in presuming that?
Scoty: It's all I got now... haha.. so yeah it naturally intensifies.
PB: A bit of a technical question if I may?
Scoty: Sure.
PB: Ejaculations after this are they a no, or do they take on a different form like full body orgasms?
Scoty: I'm one of the lucky ones, where I've been able to have full body orgasms, or assgasms. Ejaculations and orgasms are differently different now. Men that have dicks, have an explosive climax, an explosive release... I do not, when I cum and I can cum now pretty much constantly while I'm stimulated, it's like a faucet that's been turned on. The look and texture of my cum is also completely different, imagine only pre-cumming.
PB: That has to be hot I would think. I've been able to cum a few times completely hands free and it was vastly different I thought. My assgasms, or as I tend to call them... pussygasms... are incredible and those I live for because they are way more intense, last longer and are oddly hugely more satisfying and you can have multiple ones. But I'm one of the "rare"... or maybe it's not all that rare... ones to only cum without something up my ass.
Scoty: I completely agree.
PB: Question about the surgery, if I may. Was it painful? What was recovery like and do you have to undergo therapy like when having a sex change.. which I think is ludicrous.
Scoty: Well, for surgery I got a nerve block, and of course anesthesia during the six hour long surgeries. The plus though was, I had a beautiful full face from all the ozygen I got... hehe. The only pain I had from surgery was once the nerve block wore off. That was a painful hour while waiting for pain meds to kick in. I chose to stay on round the clock pain meds... why hurt and suffer when you don't have to. Recovery at home, I really had issues with the Foley catheter... quiet uncomfortable experience for the two weeks I had it. And it was only an issue because of the location of my urethra. I basically sit on my urethra.
Therapy no, though my medical team were all very supportive... extremely supportive... first Nullo, the hospital was a buzz of chatter. No laser hair removal needed for Nullos. So that was a plus. Sorry to finish your question concerning pain and surgery. There was never any pain from the surgery itself. The mind and body have an amazing ability to rework itself. Perhaps it was a life time of hating my genitalia and a combination of pain meds immediately after surgery but it was truly hard to remember the feeling of having it. It's like my mind forgot what it was suppose to feel like.
PB: No you're fine. I like that you went into so much detail about it. I'm sure readers will have more of an understanding like I am getting. So does having this surgery put you and others in the "trans community umbrella" much like non-binary folks or no?
Scoty: Yes. As a Nullo, non-binary individual I do fall under the trans umbrella. But, more focus is put on me being non-binary.. all medical facilities and charting, label me as non-binary along with my chosen pronouns.
PB: That has to be so cool, as I came out as non-binary maybe two months ago and everyone was like, "duh, PB, we all know your the passive partner, and hello, you're a semi-retired professional drag queen, so HELLO!"
Scoty: I love that. I also want to say I loved reading the interview you did with Lucas Daken.
PB: Thank you so much for that. That interview came about because she was the first to list she/he and gender-fluid and still do gay porn. I was fascinated by it at the time, as I myself was struggling with this idea was I myself non-binary/third gender person like the research I was doing at the time. Lucas was a HUGE part of accepting myself as non-binary with a tendency toward effeminacy as I call my sexual parts by feminine names like so many pussyboi's do. This idea of identifying more as a girl than as a boi too, but without surgery or hormones; but I was fully fascinated by what you did because it was something I never heard of, but something that that really left you non-binary much like Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld was writing about before and during World War II.
Scoty: I'm truly happy that you have discovered yourself... wear it like a badge... own it, continue to love yourself for who you are. It's an amazing feeling accepting oneself for who and what they are. Too many of us are ashamed, afraid, and some of that is unpreventable due to family or living situation, etc. And discovering oneself may take a lifetime to do, I know for myself that was/is the case. Surgery was definitely a huge transition in affirming who I am. Who knows what's next... I'm just emerging from my silken cocoon.
PB: That's exactly what it felt like, the coming out of my cocoon and blending/or blurring exactly what is gender for me was what "pushed me over the edge" if you will. That we don't have to present a certain way, or in certain clothes or even our mannerisms. But I feel there is so much education that needs to be done on so many levels for acceptance and I am almost sure that is the case for you you too because I'm pretty sure mass public think, "Oh you CHOSE to do this" when in reality you had to be yourself, and in many ways your doing that just by being your authentic self.
Scoty: Yes I agree 1000% with you on that.
PB: Is there something you would like to say because I haven't thought to ask it?
Scoty: Oh I don’t know, my heart is heavy today, someone dear to me has passed. I guess i would say life is to short, and to live a life of regret or fear would be a shame and a dishonor to oneself. We should all look inside ourselves and see the beauty thats within us. Show the world that beauty, that light. JUST BE YOU.
PB: I am so very, very sorry someone so close has passed.
Scoty: Thank you 
PB: What advice would you give others if they are considering doing what you've had done?
Scoty: Well if the person has the means to have the surgery, of course do it ! Free yourself of it. Everyone deserves to be happy with their body. I get asked a lot about my opinion on going to a cutter, and my response is always DON’T DO IT! It has been the best decision I ever made. My only regret was not being able to do it sooner.
amazing interview...thank you.
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